do i have aspergers?

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I understand your worry and concern but to get answers, you may have have to take a chance. It may surprise you that being open and honest may be the most beneficial for your needs. It may be possible that your mom is worried about what you might think and you are worried about what she might think! I have found that uncomfortable communication is usually better than no communication.

Disclaimer- this its only my opinion and you need to decide what is best for you and your future- I am not a professional...

You know sometiems parents simply don't tell their children their diagnosis. My mom never told me my diagnosis until I learned it directly from my psychiatrist. Given how severe you are, I bet they DID diagnose you, and your mom simply is keeping it from you. You should ask your mom directly about it.

i could do that but im kinda nervous my mum will find out

Roman i could do that..it kind of nerve wrecking

also my doctor is not helpful at all so i wouldnt b surprised if i wasnt diagnosed. maybe at some point i will ask my therapist.

You said you are afraid that your mom finds out you have a problem. But if you ask your mom about your PAST diagostic history, she already knows it whetehr you ask her or not. So she won't ''find out'' anything new by simply hearing herself giving you the answer.

You also mentioned you have a therapist. This should indicate that you probably have diagnosis; otherwise they won't send you to therapy if you didn't.

i go to therapy because i have depression and because im transgendered as well

i think i will talk with my therapist about it on tuesday

Are you male-to-female or female-to-male transgendered? Did you already have gender change operation or are you just planing to?

female to male. no surgery or hormones yet

so...i been getting alot worst with this asperger thing ppl r noticing im weird alot more..what should i do?

So, when exactly did u first notice this "asperger thing".

Well, the ''tuesday'' you were referring to is long past. Did you ask your therapist about Asperger like you were plannign to? What did she say?

i didnt talk to her because we were talking bout other things but i have been noticing i cant read peoples emotions what so ever! i dont understand emotions or anything! and i also been in hospital 2 so i been busy

I'm a bit puzzled by how your "asperger's" has suddenly been getting worse. Sounds like you should consider prioritising this as a point to bring up with your therapist on your next visit.

its not that its getting worst its that im noticing more things bout it. im scared 2 bring it up cuz my mother might get maadd. like this