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30 Nov 2015, 9:05 am

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Y'know I always thought that Aspires were introverted geniuses that were good at maths and science terrible at socialising and flirting.

Everyone with asperger's must have deficits in social communication. That is a core area. But you could be extroverted, have an IQ in the normal range as opposed to genius range, be terrible at maths and science and still have it.

Also, the aspie quiz I see as being near pointless. It just goes by traits and does whatever their latest theory is. It's not even accurate as a screening tool, just gives an idea how many traits and that's it. It's supposed to be a game, like those personality ones.

As for how diagnosis works, it depends on age and location. I think in a lot of places you need to see your doctor (like, the family one or whatever, here they're GPs) and get referred on to psychology for an evaluation. But it's different for different places, that's just how it is where I live. I have no idea how it works in NZ.


Yeah stereotypes are silly! We aspies are all unique not all the same similarities maybe but different none the less.

I might contact my school counselor or nurse and they can give me some ideas on where to get a diagnosis.



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30 Nov 2015, 9:07 am

There's a fellow New Zealander, with the screen name B19, who could provide inspiration for you.



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30 Nov 2015, 9:13 am

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There's a fellow New Zealander, with the screen name B19, who could provide inspiration for you.


Really I'll look him up thanks! :)



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30 Nov 2015, 9:17 am

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Go to the school counselor with the attitude that you will succeed despite this--rather than providing them with the notion that you are "handicapped"--that you are seeking the "easy way out."

Asperger's does not ring death knells of failure.

Many people do succeed despite (or perhaps because of) the "disorder."


yeah Aspergers can be good in some ways it gives you a unique way of thinking! :wink:



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30 Nov 2015, 9:22 am

Found a thread from 5 years ago of someone, at the time, 15 years old from NZ and the links and advice may be helpful. The person who posted it seems to have quit shortly after, though.

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=136713



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30 Nov 2015, 9:27 am

B19 is a woman. I should have told you that.



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30 Nov 2015, 9:30 am

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B19 is a woman. I should have told you that.


Haha yeah I saw it's okay. :lol:



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30 Nov 2015, 9:34 am

iliketrees wrote:
Found a thread from 5 years ago of someone, at the time, 15 years old from NZ and the links and advice may be helpful. The person who posted it seems to have quit shortly after, though.

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=136713



Omg thanks this looks helpful! :D



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30 Nov 2015, 9:36 am

Aspergirl16, what anime is that avvy from? Looks like a dark haired Misa (Death Note). XD


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30 Nov 2015, 9:38 am

Sounds like you've had an Eureka moment!

Similar to how the Conquistadors felt when they found the Pacific (Yes, their diseases killed the native population, and their brutality was great--but I'm talking about the sense of discovery!)



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30 Nov 2015, 9:41 am

give this link a go http://www.autismnz.org.nz/ and you should be able to find your area... The lady from my area was more than helpful! Very kind over the phone, willing to give out and send any information aswell as numbers you will need.. They even ask you to call back and have a chat anytime you want... Great crew :) But see GP first as he will give the referral that should be subsidized :) As a ""Mature Male"" i have been going through the system here a bit.. But for you the process should be faster :)



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30 Nov 2015, 9:43 am

NerdyAnimeGirl wrote:
Aspergirl16, what anime is that avvy from? Looks like a dark haired Misa (Death Note). XD


Yeah it is Misa from death note it took me ages to find a pic that was small enough to fit my avatar XD!



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30 Nov 2015, 9:46 am

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give this link a go http://www.autismnz.org.nz/ and you should be able to find your area... The lady from my area was more than helpful! Very kind over the phone, willing to give out and send any information aswell as numbers you will need.. They even ask you to call back and have a chat anytime you want... Great crew :) But see GP first as he will give the referral that should be subsidized :) As a ""Mature Male"" i have been going through the system here a bit.. But for you the process should be faster :)


Thanks so much I think a phone call will be a great idea! I hope they don't mind my babbling haha! :D



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30 Nov 2015, 9:49 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Sounds like you've had an Eureka moment!

Similar to how the Conquistadors felt when they found the Pacific (Yes, their diseases killed the native population, and their brutality was great--but I'm talking about the sense of discovery!)


Had to look it up. Oh yeah awesome haha! :D



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30 Nov 2015, 9:49 am

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give this link a go http://www.autismnz.org.nz/ and you should be able to find your area... The lady from my area was more than helpful! Very kind over the phone, willing to give out and send any information aswell as numbers you will need.. They even ask you to call back and have a chat anytime you want... Great crew :) But see GP first as he will give the referral that should be subsidized :) As a ""Mature Male"" i have been going through the system here a bit.. But for you the process should be faster :)


Thanks so much I think a phone call will be a great idea! I hope they don't mind my babbling haha! :D


I think it's kind of expected ;)



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30 Nov 2015, 9:51 am

Yeah...Aspergian are known for expounding.....and expounding....and expounding some more...