I need to rant

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Okay I just joined today and as soon as I post a reply ALL messages stop 100% it's like they know I'm there and they say oh s**t it's that a**hole everyone stop replying he just ruined the room for us let's go to another room I replied to 3 different posts and all traffic has stopped why because of me so I promise I won't ever reply to anything else

Do be sensible, it's not that at all.
Wrong Planet does have high and low traffic times. Most people posting here seem to be American, and unlikely posting in the middle of the night. You likely replied just when they all went to bed.
Also, especially in the general discussion, many people give it a rest when the spammers turn up and start flooding the board with black magic love potions or whatever, until the spam clears up. If you observe below, you'll see the spam. This is another likely reason why traffic has slowed at the moment.
It's not all about you.

Well I'm sorry if that's how I feel hell thats how I feel 100% of the time but hey screw it and question do you need to be so insulting it's called a rant for a reason

I am not being insulting. I am in fact being the precise reverse of insulting - I'm telling you no one is avoiding you, they don't think you're an a***hole, you did not ruin anything by commenting, and people would likely not be adverse to you commenting in future. I am giving you alternative explanations as to why activity stopped after you posted, that do not involve putting any kind of negative aspersions on you. I plainly told you this is not about you personally. This is al intended to make you feel better.
If you feel unwanted or persecuted 100% of the time, that is the likely reason you interpreted my comment negatively - because you always perceive others as persecuting you. What I typed was not an insult.

I do apologize I know your just trying to help but I am way to pissed off parden my language every time I try to participate on stuff like this traffic just stops I'm in the u.s.a so you might be right but it still hurts

Sometimes people are multitasking on their puter so don't pay attention. People also don't get notices that someone commented because those are annoying. Also it's not possible to get a notice if someone quotes you and stuff unless they sent you a pm.

I would rather not get personal messages from people I'm not here to make friends or find a relationship I don't believe that being in a relationship will make me happy

Well you're obviously here to comment and exchange ideas, you can do the same in in a pm without getting buddy-buddy with someone. Then people will notice you commented and maybe comment back.

Maybe but I'm not gonna be the first to message people I'm sorry but I will not trust anyone and I'm done being nice to people

Adopt the approach,they reply,good,if they don't,good also....Meh,water off a ducks back.

As you said,your not here to make friends or look for a relationship.

And at the end of the day,your assuming the worst and that's far from the truth and or facts of the matter.

I always assume the worst because the worst always happens to me at least I don't care though oh freaking well I'm an angry mean person and that's not gonna change it's who I am I'm pessimistic I'm an a**hole I'm rude and mean to keep people out of my life

Yeah,i use to assume a lot myself.

And if your such an a**hole,rude etc etc,why not try changing that,if you understand your behaviors?

You need to be a lot kinder on yourself and not be so hard on yourself.

No one will be kind to me so why should I change my life for people who want to treat me like an animal no way i will not do it people start coming to me with respect and kindness I might contemplate on thinking about being nice

You tell yourself that and that's your perception from past issues.

Anyhow,gotta get ready for work,so don't assume or get angry,if i don't reply.

Take care and lighten up.: )

I'm never gonna lighten up I don't have to so please don't tell me what to do thank you

Good luck.