Alphabetania wrote:
wigglyspider wrote:
Most people are born with instincts - automated systems in their brain - but ASD people seem to be born (assuming we're born with it, which I know may or may not be true, but whatever) with a number of instincts missing, so they have to figure out how to manually operate their own brain. (To varying degrees, depending on where they are on the spectrum.)
I wonder about that.
Most people have a sheep-like instinct to do what others do. I am happy enough to do what everyone else is doing as long as it makes sense to me, whereas to NTs it doesn't appear to have to make sense. A bunch of them will go off and get drunk and have hangovers, and I cannot figure out why on earth one would want to or need to do that. Now why I have to be called the one with a deviant brain, I don't know, when
they are the ones who are acting stupidly.
I too have the instinct and desire to breed, but I just cannot think of enough sound reasons to follow that instinct, and for the life of me, I cannot figure out why more people don't think like I do. When it comes to this issue, I feel like much of the world is quite mad. The reason for breeding seems self-evident to them, yet if it is so easy to understand, why can't they explain it to me in a manner which makes sense to me? I think they just do irrational things and then try to come up with rational explanations for their behaviour.
Yes, exactly, that is actually an instinct in the sense that nature biologists use it, which is how I was using it. :3 Following the group can be a good instinct, since in the time it takes you to think about WHY you would want to do what everyone else is doing, you might get eaten by a lion or something. (It might have less severe consequences today, like making it hard to get a good job.)
But I do think some aspects of autism might be evolutionary advantages, which sounds more like where you're coming from, heh.
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