Do you have no interest in house chores?

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09 Nov 2009, 3:55 pm

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if I didn't do them, noone would.


In my home, no one does :lol: .


That's the way it pretty much is over here...Executive dysfunction makes doing the dishes an all-day horror...I have about one square foot of counter space...Mondays are the worst because we have our great cookout...so I spend hours making huge messes and hours cleaning them up...and nothing is ever quite clean....



09 Nov 2009, 5:10 pm

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I don't do well for things I don't care, don't enjoy, or aren't interested in. House chores, I only do what has to be done, laundry, as I won't have anything to wear, etc put something away, as my cat might knock it over. I don't really dust, or move furniture or anything like that.

Which is why I get called lazy a lot. Yet, I can do much more difficult and tiring things for a long time when I enjoy it. I mean, I found that I like to paint walls, and even though I do get tired, I don't really like to stop. Now how is that lazy?


It's not but everyone has some laziness in them. But too many people just can't admit it. My bathroom needs to be cleaned again and the kitchen floor and I need to go to the bank, but I don't wanna. Too lazy. I just don't feel like it is why.



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09 Nov 2009, 5:40 pm

I was neeeeever into house chores when I lived at my parents' house. XD; And even when I moved out, it took me a while to get into it. But once I realized it was way nicer to live in a clean house, I just kind of worked the chores into the regular stuff I do every day. I think that's how it has to be done. I never set aside time for cleaning, ew. I just clean here and there during downtime, (like maybe clean a couple dishes while waiting for the microwave) and it works really well and I even enjoy it.


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09 Nov 2009, 6:26 pm

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I don't do well for things I don't care, don't enjoy, or aren't interested in. House chores, I only do what has to be done, laundry, as I won't have anything to wear, etc put something away, as my cat might knock it over. I don't really dust, or move furniture or anything like that.

Which is why I get called lazy a lot. Yet, I can do much more difficult and tiring things for a long time when I enjoy it. I mean, I found that I like to paint walls, and even though I do get tired, I don't really like to stop. Now how is that lazy?



OMG! This sounds like ME!! ! I get called lazy I guess writing a research paper over a 2 week holiday and focusing strictly on class work is lazy. :-(



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09 Nov 2009, 6:41 pm

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OMG! This sounds like ME!! ! I get called lazy I guess writing a research paper over a 2 week holiday and focusing strictly on class work is lazy. :-(


I used to like studying during the holidays. It's great when you have pretty much the whole campus and library materials to yourself -- beats the rat race during term time! Plus, if you were really nice to the security staff, they'd let you play DVDs on the big screen in the lecture theatre :) .



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09 Nov 2009, 8:58 pm

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Haha I HATE untidyness, but I also hate chores. A harsh predicament if I may say so.


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09 Nov 2009, 11:02 pm

i enjoy a clean house, i despise cleaning it. i discovered it is easier for me to maintain a tidy household if i break up the jobs into sections. like the dishes, i will wash the plates, then do something i like, then later wash the cutlery, then do something i like...etc etc.

same with sweeping the floor, do one room, stop for awhile, do another, then stop. it is not very efficient but it also doesn't make me feel like i'm going to self-combust.



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10 Nov 2009, 5:39 am

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It's not that I'm being lazy, I just honestly don't notice them.


Amen, sister! Any time my mom comes to visit me, she is always saying things like "how do you live like this?" and "how can you look at that?". It has taken me eight years of living on my own to realize that she sees things that I actually don't see (is that mind-blind or just reasonable?). I really don't see what she points out to me (sometimes even when she points at it). And no, those things don't bother me-- because I don't see them!! !



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My family (and roommates I have lived with) try subtlety with things like letting the laundry (dirty towels etc) pile up assuming I will see the pile and do laundry. I don't notice the piles. I do notice when I go to grab a clean one that there aren't any, at which point I will do a load. They then exclaim "finally, I was wondering when you would notice the towels piling up!! !". I didn't!, but thanks for the subtlety.


These sum me up very well.


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10 Nov 2009, 6:12 am

House chores are generally too boring for me. I seem to need a spark of fascination with a task before I can get off my butt and make a start.

But just like everybody else, if I don't do the chores, nobody else will. So I compromise - the most important chores get done (with the absolute minimum of fuss and bother), and I try to arrange my life in a way that doesn't create a lot of chores. I don't cook, and if I use a plate, more often than not it'll be a disposable one. It never ceases to amaze me how much work people are prepared to create for themselves with their cookery - sure, it's nice, but for me it's rarely worth the pain of clearing it all away afterwards. It's a good feeling to deviate from the norm in a way that gives me fewer boring things in my life.

One saving grace is that once I've started doing anything - chores or not - I can't easily stop until I've completed the mission. The only things I've given up on are to do with organising my stuff, it just gets so complicated that I can't work out what to do. And even with that, I haven't given up for good. I'm always hoping to find some way of getting my possessions organised properly, and in the meantime I cope by picking a small area of the job and just doing that, e.g. right now I'm sorting out all the old photographs I've taken over the years, creating an archive with digitised copies and all the known dates, names and places that the photos are about. There must be at least 2000 pictures, but the job is fairly clear-cut, so it's getting done. I find it very helpful to apply firm limits to the task I take on, otherwise I tend to expand it until I'm trying to tidy up the whole universe.



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10 Nov 2009, 10:04 am

I don't really like the idea of cleaning, but it doesn't bother me once I get going. :wink:

Besides, one has to clean anyway, lest they get cockroaches. :shrug:


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10 Nov 2009, 10:10 am

Move to Norway or another nothern country; no roaches here! :wink:


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10 Nov 2009, 10:39 am

House chores are overated.


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10 Nov 2009, 11:24 am

I don't notice much about dust and whatnot. I'm also a procrastinator and rather slow about things, but eventually I catch up with cleaning, but it alway gets away from me in the end.



10 Nov 2009, 6:47 pm

I bet ot of people hate house chores but do them anyway or else their place gets messier and messier. That's why rich folks hire maids because they can afford to be lazy and still have a clean place.



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10 Nov 2009, 7:43 pm

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I am with the others on not noticing things. Some chores I do often, ie washing dishes, because I can't stand the pile up in the sink. Other chores like dusting and vacuuming don't occur to me because unless the dust affects me in some way, what does it matter?

My family (and roommates I have lived with) try subtlety with things like letting the laundry (dirty towels etc) pile up assuming I will see the pile and do laundry. I don't notice the piles. I do notice when I go to grab a clean one that there aren't any, at which point I will do a load. They then exclaim "finally, I was wondering when you would notice the towels piling up!! !". I didn't!, but thanks for the subtlety. :shrug:


Im about the same way, and i really wont do some house chore unless directed to do so, and even then its up to what i see, then someone complains that it wasnt up to their specs. Then they expect you to have known to clean it up . . . sorry, if i havent done a certain kind of cleaning, or cleaning a certain area, then i have no idea what in the hell that person expected.


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10 Nov 2009, 7:45 pm

I never used to be able to clean. Part of it was that I never knew where to start. But I was also never able to keep things clean that were already clean!

Recently, though, between the FLYlady, and a few threads on here, I've started to get into it. The house is looking WAY better. I also went through amazon.com and ordered some subscriptions to housekeeping type magazines and stuff. It's like it is with everything else for me: I need obsession in order to get things done.