Emotional Intelligence test - Question
Self-report Component
Subscale IQ score = 66
Subscale percentile = 1
According to your self-report answers, your emotional intelligence is very poor. People who score like you do feel that they have trouble dealing with their own emotions and those of others. They struggle to overcome difficulties in their lives and they are unable to control their moods. It's hard for them to understand how best to motivate themselves and reach their goals. In addition, they find social interactions quite difficult, for several reasons. They may have trouble allowing themselves to get close with others, finding it difficult to be vulnerable enough to establish intimacy. They also report having trouble offering support to others, likely due to the fact that they do not understand where others are coming from or they lack ideas about how best to help. Perhaps by working on your problem areas, you can become more confident in dealing with your own emotions and those of others.
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Self-report Component
Subscale IQ score = 64
Subscale percentile = 1
64
According to your self-report answers, your emotional intelligence is very poor. People who score like you do feel that they have trouble dealing with their own emotions and those of others. They struggle to overcome difficulties in their lives and they are unable to control their moods. It's hard for them to understand how best to motivate themselves and reach their goals. In addition, they find social interactions quite difficult, for several reasons. They may have trouble allowing themselves to get close with others, finding it difficult to be vulnerable enough to establish intimacy. They also report having trouble offering support to others, likely due to the fact that they do not understand where others are coming from or they lack ideas about how best to help. Perhaps by working on your problem areas, you can become more confident in dealing with your own emotions and those of others.
Well... I'd like to say I'm surprised by this result but I'm not. This test can go f**k itself because I've been working on my "problem areas" in vain for years.
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It just struck me that you score might be off since the test could not consider your age -- it only allowed for up to 100 -- unless you are not really 149!
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Guess not.
I actually thought I was doing "better", but that test is just a come-on for trying to get people to pay for something more ... kind of like the water-softener salesperson who wants to test our water to "help us see" our alleged need to buy what s/he has to offer ... or somewhat like letting a fox call the dance in the chicken house. Being aware of the fact other people have emotions is a beginning at dealing with our "emotional ignorance", and letting them know I do not read them well, if at all, is good enough for me!
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My EQ is similarly challenged. (4th percentile)
But this is hardly surprising. I have a very narrow emotional range. But unlike the narrative summary, I don't think it presents a significant impediment in my life. My friends don't expect large emotional responses from me, and my colleagues seem to perceive me as, "cool under pressure."
Having grown up and matured (somewhat) with this brain, I seem to have developed coping skills to navigate around this deficit.
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It just struck me that you score might be off since the test could not consider your age -- it only allowed for up to 100 -- unless you are not really 149!
Seems you are more clued up than me about emotions. My wife did the same test and she came up in the 14th percentile so while she is also much more clued up than me with emotions she is still well below average. My guess is that people with love EIQ scores perhaps gravitate together as neither of them likes to rock the emotional boat, both preferring a life free of emotional-drama.
She says that in social situations I do come across as a "bit gormless"
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I'm perceived similar. Someone once said that I was "so laid back I was almost horizontal". I don't know if I really am as cool as people perceive or I simply look calm because I can't comprehend the ship is sinking
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I wonder if it is impossible or much more difficult for us Aspies / Auties to fix these "problem areas" anyway? I can't help thinking that perhaps the "problems" are hard-wired into our brains anyway and no amount of "work" will change how we are?
I've learned many social survival skills over the years (I'm now 49) and can pass as more or less "normal" to many people. However, scoring so low on the test makes me think that all I've learned is to hide my social / emotional shortcomings rather than learn how to "improve" them.
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Possibly, but I suspect only in a mechanical way. I have an understanding of needs, desires and instincts as well as their relationships with (and between) ego, fear, pride and ignorance. For example, tears always come from some type of frustration, including being happy that someone like you or me finally found a mate ... yet I certainly did not cry at any of my own weddings!
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Self-report Component
Subscale IQ score = 116
Subscale percentile = 86
116
According to your self-report answers, your emotional intelligence is average. People who score like you do feel that their ability to understand and deal with their own emotions and those of others is acceptable but could still use some improvement. Emotionally intelligent people have an easy time overcoming difficulties in their lives and they are generally able to control their moods. It's easy for them to motivate themselves to overcome obstacles and reach their goals. In addition, they find social interactions to be quite easy and fulfilling, for several reasons. They are comfortable allowing themselves to get close with others, and feel comfortable being vulnerable enough to establish intimacy. They also report having an easy time offering support to others; likely due to an empathetic nature and a clear mind when it comes to offering good advice. Perhaps by working on your problem areas, you can become more confident in dealing with your own emotions and those of others.
Self-report Component
Subscale IQ score = 116
Subscale percentile = 86
That sounds very high for an Aspie? I assumed Aspies would tend to have lower than average emotional intelligence level than average.
What's Your EQ?
Emotional Intelligence Test
How Did You Score?
Your results indicate a high score on emotional intelligence.
What Does Your Score Mean?
People who score high on emotional intelligence tend to be skilled at interpreting, understanding, and acting upon emotions. They are adept at dealing with social or emotional conflicts, expressing their feelings, and dealing with emotional situations.
It's important to remember that no matter how good your score is, there is always room to improve your emotional intelligence. Consider areas where you are not as strong and think of ways that you can learn and grow. Take stock of your strong points and find ways to continue to develop and apply these skills.
http://psychology.about.com/library/qui ... htm?cor=76 <<<this is the quiz i took
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That one gave me "above average", but knowing what to actually do with knowledge is another matter.
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I don't think that "About.com" test is very accurate; it seems very superficial and the questions are way too subjective.
Something is wrong if I'm in the lowest 2% on one test and higher than average on another.
The text results for the first test were also much more like me than the following text:
Your results indicate an above average score on emotional intelligence.
What Does Your Score Mean?
People with a better than average score on emotional intelligence tend to be good at interpreting, understanding, and acting upon emotions. They are usually quite good at dealing with social or emotional conflicts, expressing their feelings, and dealing with emotional situations.
It's important to remember that no matter how good your score is, there is always room to improve your emotional intelligence. Consider areas where you are not as strong and think of ways that you can learn and grow. Take stock of your strong points and find ways to continue to develop and apply these skills.
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