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VincentVanJones
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06 Jan 2010, 6:53 am

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I'm sorry. I've done soemthing horribly wrong, so I'll just leave you guys alone to talk in this thread. I can be such a nasty person, sometimes. :cry:


Don't do that, you did nothing wrong...

Is this sarcasm though?



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06 Jan 2010, 6:55 am

VincentVanJones wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
I'm sorry. I've done soemthing horribly wrong, so I'll just leave you guys alone to talk in this thread. I can be such a nasty person, sometimes. :cry:


Don't do that, you did nothing wrong...

Is this sarcasm though?


It doesn't seem like it, to me.


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06 Jan 2010, 6:55 am

Now you've upset CockneyRebel. Way to go champs /sarcasm



06 Jan 2010, 7:04 am

Jerry Jerry :lol:



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06 Jan 2010, 7:05 am

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...(using the :roll: smiley, or using "/sarcasm" at the end of any sarcasm infused statement).

Now, that's embarrassing because, for me, when I use the emoticon :roll: , which is quite often, it means that I'm wondering something or about something.
... In real life, that's how my eyes go when I'm thinking of/about something in a kind of dreamy/remembering way: to the roof, if I may so. And it has nothing to do with sarcasm :?

And also, I wanted to add that I'm glad my English is good enough to understand people's statements and posts here but not good enough to understand everything. It's easyer, in some kind of way.




And also again, I have a question for those who like that kind of humor: why is being sarcastic so important to you?



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06 Jan 2010, 7:07 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
I'm sorry. I've done soemthing horribly wrong, so I'll just leave you guys alone to talk in this thread. I can be such a nasty person, sometimes. :cry:


Christ. You take everything way too personally :P


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06 Jan 2010, 7:12 am

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Now you've upset CockneyRebel. Way to go champs /sarcasm


I would have thought you were serious if not for the /sarcasm. Thank god for small favors :P



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06 Jan 2010, 7:33 am

People, we've let this get way out of hand. Mistakes were made as well as misinterpretations.

Now let's have a normal discussion about the subject.

I prefer forums with a higher percentage of autistic people like me. Not only because I can relate to them more, but because I can be more open about my special interests, whereupon on an NT forum, I'd get laughed out (this has happened to me in the past) I go on a lot of NT forums, mainly dedicated to my special interests, and WP is the only place with general discussion about many things I go on.


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06 Jan 2010, 7:46 am

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People, we've let this get way out of hand. Mistakes were made as well as misinterpretations.

Now let's have a normal discussion about the subject.

I prefer forums with a higher percentage of autistic people like me. Not only because I can relate to them more, but because I can be more open about my special interests, whereupon on an NT forum, I'd get laughed out (this has happened to me in the past) I go on a lot of NT forums, mainly dedicated to my special interests, and WP is the only place with general discussion about many things I go on.


Here here! Props for a good post :)

I agree with some of that, though my "interests" are liked by a large number of NT's as well, so I am ok there. This post was just my view, I was not telling others how to act/think.



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06 Jan 2010, 7:57 am

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Jerry Jerry :lol:


That was the first thing to make me laugh out loud today.


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06 Jan 2010, 9:15 am

Hi VincentVanJones,

From reading a couple more of the posts on this thread, I can see that you also find this forum helpful. I am someone who understands sarcasm and humour quite well, a lot better than I did as a child at any rate. As a child, I barely understood it at all. I have also found that there are those on here who don't quite get it as adults, but I have noticed that some users of WP do help them out, as has been stated by other posters, by the use of emoticons or by stating beforehand and/or afterwards what the statement made is.

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People with AS seem less willing to except anything new then NT's on other boards. This is just my view though.


People with AS find it harder to adapt to change or anything new don't you know :wink:

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It is also very hard to write a post the way I want to on WP, since sarcasm is missed by so many, and sometimes I feel I have to "dumb down" my post to get something said so it is understood. I am afraid to post many things here because they not only could, but would be taken as attacks/trolling/insultive even though there is no malicious intent behind them.


For sarcasm, I have seen people on here using "/sarcasm" before and sometimes after a statement they intend to be sarcastic (as has already been stated by another poster), or I have seen this emoticon used :roll: . I sometimes get confused when this emoticon is used as I sometimes think the poster is just fed up rather than being sarcastic.

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On other boards/sites with NT's it is much easier to just joke and take it easy. People tend to get less offended in general also. You can have a conversation with some trash talking and it's ok. You don't have to and are not expected to analyze every single thing said.


Funny that, I get quite the opposite on forums predominantly used by non-autistics (sorry, I don't like using 'NT' to describe non-autistics). I will say something and people take what I have said the wrong way completely, assumptions will be made about what I have said and, of course, they are ALWAYS right even though that's not what I have said at all. This doesn't happen all the time, but it has happened. Sometimes though I get told I am intelligent on non-autistic forums or how my comments are food for thought, which is nice.

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I will say on NT forums I have had to defend myself allot though, as regular users on sites tend to pick you apart if you are not careful. This is generally when I join and for the first 50-100 of my posts.


I also find this.

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There are plenty of very intelligent/non judgmental NT's though.


I have also come across this, moreso on forums than in real life. Unfortunately, my problem is in real life is that those that are intelligent seem to think I am inferior to them in some way and those that are less intelligent don't understand me. The ones that generally tend to be non-judgemental towards me tend to have other mental health issues in my reality, I can't really speak for anyone else though.

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I do speak my mind when I feel like it and won't censor myself just because somebody doesn't like my opinion.


Good, I like honesty in a person, there is not enough of it in today's society. If I don't like what you have to say, I will tell you and will do so in a manner that you know I am disagreeing with you, but I won't be bitchy or anything like that, just as I'd expect you to do for me if you didn't agree with me.

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WrongPlanet is the best site that I've come acrossed. This site has been a great help to me. I find it easier to post here, than I do the regular sites.


I completely agree. I find that I can relate to people here and discuss stuff with people here a lot more than on other sites, hence I use this one most often.



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06 Jan 2010, 9:19 am

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And also again, I have a question for those who like that kind of humor: why is being sarcastic so important to you?


I love sarcasm. It is for me either just a form of humor, like a pun. ( I love pun's too, they just crack me up) and sometimes it is used to vent frustration at a comment that I find illogical, and sometimes I'm just being silly and use it in a lighhearted way. i also like dry humor a lot! I have a weird sense of humor anyway.



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06 Jan 2010, 9:33 am

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CockneyRebel wrote:
I'm sorry. I've done soemthing horribly wrong, so I'll just leave you guys alone to talk in this thread. I can be such a nasty person, sometimes. :cry:


Christ. You take everything way too personally :P


That's because I'm a Highly Sensitive Person.

http://www.highlysensitivepeople.com/


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06 Jan 2010, 10:36 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
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CockneyRebel wrote:
I'm sorry. I've done soemthing horribly wrong, so I'll just leave you guys alone to talk in this thread. I can be such a nasty person, sometimes. :cry:


Christ. You take everything way too personally :P


That's because I'm a Highly Sensitive Person.

http://www.highlysensitivepeople.com/


I was really hoping that link was a joke >.>

@Fiz - It is 10:35 AM and I have not slept for a good 22ish hours. I did read your post though and if I was not falling asleep while typing I would give it the response it deserves. Maybe I will do so later....



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06 Jan 2010, 10:37 am

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Sometimes "normal" forums are easier to post on.


I agree with this statement. It's true for me. I only belong to two other forums that are not related to autsim. I have easily and immediately made friends there, and seem to be liked and respected. Posting on those forums is enjoyable and stress free. I think it's due to the nature of the forums, not the membership. One is a music forum, whose members are fans of a particular musician. That is our common bond; our love and respect for the musician and our life experiences related to that musician and his music. The other is a cultural site whose members are all a part of that culture and have roots in the same geographical area. Nothing really heavy gets discussed on either of these sites, it's relaxing, enjoyable and informative,

I love Wrong Planet. There are many, many good and honest people here. It has done much to help me grow as an individual on the spectrum, but I do tend to worry about how my posts will be received and interpreted. That gets tiresome. I have no real sense of belonging here, or of having any real value here as a member and that might be purely a result of numbers. 32,190 members is astounding and factions are understandably going to be formed as they would be in any community of that size.

Autism is a hot topic. There's bound to be a lot of differences of opinion and a lot of emotionally packed thoughts and words that will unintentionally (and sometimes intentionally) ignite a fuse. A few exceptional people have been kind and receptive to me, but mostly it feels like I am up against a strong tide and will be knocked over if I don't stay strong and alert and watch my ps & qs. I feel as though I have to keep my guard up and it gets to be exhausting. There is definitely an undertow going on here, a sub-culture, an underground, if you will, and, call me paranoid, but I get the strong suspicion that they communicate by pms and are part of a goon squad. There, I've said it. I've wanted to say it for a long time. It's how I feel and what I believe. Yes, I could be wrong, I would like to be wrong, I hope I'm wrong.



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06 Jan 2010, 10:41 am

this thread is like a "buggers muddle" to me. i can not understand nearly any of it. i wish i could.