Hi VincentVanJones,
From reading a couple more of the posts on this thread, I can see that you also find this forum helpful. I am someone who understands sarcasm and humour quite well, a lot better than I did as a child at any rate. As a child, I barely understood it at all. I have also found that there are those on here who don't quite get it as adults, but I have noticed that some users of WP do help them out, as has been stated by other posters, by the use of emoticons or by stating beforehand and/or afterwards what the statement made is.
VincentVanJones wrote:
People with AS seem less willing to except anything new then NT's on other boards. This is just my view though.
People with AS find it harder to adapt to change or anything new don't you know
VincentVanJones wrote:
It is also very hard to write a post the way I want to on WP, since sarcasm is missed by so many, and sometimes I feel I have to "dumb down" my post to get something said so it is understood. I am afraid to post many things here because they not only could, but would be taken as attacks/trolling/insultive even though there is no malicious intent behind them.
For sarcasm, I have seen people on here using "/sarcasm" before and sometimes after a statement they intend to be sarcastic (as has already been stated by another poster), or I have seen this emoticon used

. I sometimes get confused when this emoticon is used as I sometimes think the poster is just fed up rather than being sarcastic.
VincentVanJones wrote:
On other boards/sites with NT's it is much easier to just joke and take it easy. People tend to get less offended in general also. You can have a conversation with some trash talking and it's ok. You don't have to and are not expected to analyze every single thing said.
Funny that, I get quite the opposite on forums predominantly used by non-autistics (sorry, I don't like using 'NT' to describe non-autistics). I will say something and people take what I have said the wrong way completely, assumptions will be made about what I have said and, of course, they are ALWAYS right even though that's not what I have said at all. This doesn't happen all the time, but it has happened. Sometimes though I get told I am intelligent on non-autistic forums or how my comments are food for thought, which is nice.
VincentVanJones wrote:
I will say on NT forums I have had to defend myself allot though, as regular users on sites tend to pick you apart if you are not careful. This is generally when I join and for the first 50-100 of my posts.
I also find this.
VincentVanJones wrote:
There are plenty of very intelligent/non judgmental NT's though.
I have also come across this, moreso on forums than in real life. Unfortunately, my problem is in real life is that those that are intelligent seem to think I am inferior to them in some way and those that are less intelligent don't understand me. The ones that generally tend to be non-judgemental towards me tend to have other mental health issues in my reality, I can't really speak for anyone else though.
Snazzlestick wrote:
I do speak my mind when I feel like it and won't censor myself just because somebody doesn't like my opinion.
Good, I like honesty in a person, there is not enough of it in today's society. If I don't like what you have to say, I will tell you and will do so in a manner that you know I am disagreeing with you, but I won't be bitchy or anything like that, just as I'd expect you to do for me if you didn't agree with me.
CockneyRebel wrote:
WrongPlanet is the best site that I've come acrossed. This site has been a great help to me. I find it easier to post here, than I do the regular sites.
I completely agree. I find that I can relate to people here and discuss stuff with people here a lot more than on other sites, hence I use this one most often.