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As I learn more about AS, I've been reading that Aspies are less likely than NT's to be fazed by age. For example I read about one 21-year old Aspie who was frequently cruel and violent to his girlfriend. His girlfriend was 71.

Indeed some of the ladies I have my eye on are much older than me, though nowhere near as old as 71.

Be that as it may, I would never ever recommend getting into a relationship with, or dating, an underage girl. Thinking of you and your integrity more than anything.

Please don't be tempted by this girl's interest. It just isn't worth the risk, and the risk drastically outweighs the value of any relationship with her (think of how people are going to see you, and their reactions).

Though it might be tempting to you, I wouldn't go anywhere near it. She's under the age of consent, you work with her and she could do you a lot of damage if she wanted to.

Stay well away.

OK,

I'm 18.

She's 16.

The legal age of consent is 17 in New York. My parents married when they where older and they are 12 years apart. They met when they where adults, but if you look at the age differences it's grosse.

My grandma on my mom's side remarried after her first husband went away and he was a younger man and is the same age as my dad. Again they met when they where adults. See, I'm not faized and I'd wait until she is legal.