Meanies
Aspieallien
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Zen wrote:
Some are diagnosed too.
The problem is that I do my utmost to be nice at all times, and I still offend people. So maybe they don't mean to be meanies.
Or maybe they do.
The problem is that I do my utmost to be nice at all times, and I still offend people. So maybe they don't mean to be meanies.
Or maybe they do.
If you inadvertently offend people then there is not nessesarily any bad intention here. Like saying or doing the wrong thing at the wrong time without intending to hurt or offend. Without a bad intention this can't be considered mean at all.
On the other hand the well seasoned and practiced hate loveing meanie goes out of thier way to specifically inflict maximum emotional pain that can last the victom a life time. Their intention and insentive is to hurt, and the trail of pain they leave behind can continue on in society and manifests itself in many of the social problems the world has such a surplus of.
So if you go out of your way to be nice at all times, this can never make you mean, as the intention is good.
Aspieallien wrote:
Zen wrote:
Some are diagnosed too.
The problem is that I do my utmost to be nice at all times, and I still offend people. So maybe they don't mean to be meanies.
Or maybe they do.
The problem is that I do my utmost to be nice at all times, and I still offend people. So maybe they don't mean to be meanies.
Or maybe they do.
If you inadvertently offend people then there is not nessesarily any bad intention here. Like saying or doing the wrong thing at the wrong time without intending to hurt or offend. Without a bad intention this can't be considered mean at all.
On the other hand the well seasoned and practiced hate loveing meanie goes out of thier way to specifically inflict maximum emotional pain that can last the victom a life time. Their intention and insentive is to hurt, and the trail of pain they leave behind can continue on in society and manifests itself in many of the social problems the world has such a surplus of.
So if you go out of your way to be nice at all times, this can never make you mean, as the intention is good.
The road to hell, eh?
But I'm glad to hear that. I'm constantly shocked when people are intentionally mean, though you'd think I'd be used to it by now.
auntblabby
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Aspieallien wrote:
Yes, it does seem that more and more there is a growing culture of meanie hate worshipers spreading thier destructive love of all things nasty. They sure seem hell bent on attacking all things good. Don't they reailse that each and everyone of us in this world contributes to the societys in which we live. We all have to live in this world, including them, and some day they will be on the receiving end of the hateful nasty mean culture they have helped to promote. I still don't, and never will understand meanies.
reading some sylvia browne, i can see that the meanies have cast their lot with the dark side, they are beyond the pale. there is no dealing with them, it is best to just avoid them as best one can. just as some folk are motivated by constructive love, the meanies are motivated by destructive hate, living only to tear others down, especially targeting loving people whom they loathe. so if you see a sociopath, inconspicuously head in another direction away from them.
Aspieallien
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Joined: 8 Jul 2009
Age: 52
Gender: Male
Posts: 190
Location: NSW, Australia
auntblabby wrote:
Aspieallien wrote:
Yes, it does seem that more and more there is a growing culture of meanie hate worshipers spreading thier destructive love of all things nasty. They sure seem hell bent on attacking all things good. Don't they reailse that each and everyone of us in this world contributes to the societys in which we live. We all have to live in this world, including them, and some day they will be on the receiving end of the hateful nasty mean culture they have helped to promote. I still don't, and never will understand meanies.
reading some sylvia browne, i can see that the meanies have cast their lot with the dark side, they are beyond the pale. there is no dealing with them, it is best to just avoid them as best one can. just as some folk are motivated by constructive love, the meanies are motivated by destructive hate, living only to tear others down, especially targeting loving people whom they loathe. so if you see a sociopath, inconspicuously head in another direction away from them.
Yes this is very true, they try so much harder to bring down loving people.
Keeping right away from them is good addvice.
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