Demographics of who does/doesn't want a cure, part 2

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Your biggest issue and do you want a cure?
Social, yes 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Social, no 21%  21%  [ 15 ]
Sensory, yes 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Sensory, no 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Executive function, yes 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Executive function, no 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
Multiple/it's a tie, yes 14%  14%  [ 10 ]
Multiple/it's a tie, no 21%  21%  [ 15 ]
Don't know/NT/results, please/other 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Total votes : 72

DandelionFireworks
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20 Feb 2011, 3:56 pm

WOW, anbuend. To be honest, I don't like the categories of executive function and autistic inertia and stuff either. It doesn't help that there's nothing to be found about how to deal with it. Plenty of stuff for parents of kids with executive dysfunction, but nothing for us. OTOH, what if you have sensory-based compulsions? When you say compulsions, are you talking about having to do something, or the feeling that something absolutely has to be a certain way and you can't rationally consider the consequences thereof or anything it's just that it has to be that way no matter what? And-- well, I'm not totally certain I understand what would be in all of your categories. I especially don't understand how communication wouldn't fit under social.

But I actually had that kind of issue (as well as hyper/hyposensitivity) in mind when I came up with that option. Perhaps I should have specified that that's included as sensory.

Nosirrom, I don't understand your post.


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20 Feb 2011, 4:00 pm

Okay,
A person in a wheelchair does not want to be in a wheelchair. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.



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20 Feb 2011, 4:04 pm

Nosirrom wrote:
Okay,
A person in a wheelchair does not want to be in a wheelchair. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.


But that's not even true; there are people in wheelchairs who would rather not be cured.


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20 Feb 2011, 4:04 pm

No two humans are the same - even identical twins are not 100% identical in everything. Human brains are wired in more than one configuration. I'm not so sure that biodiversity needs curing. I think acceptance and understanding would go alot further than 'a cure'.



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20 Feb 2011, 4:13 pm

DandelionFireworks wrote:
Nosirrom wrote:
Okay,
A person in a wheelchair does not want to be in a wheelchair. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.


But that's not even true; there are people in wheelchairs who would rather not be cured.


You are right. I don't know anyone in those circumstances. So I have no basis for a rebuttal.
It is the things that hold us back that we want to go away, and the people who have the most obvious problems, someone in a wheelchair, ....
(I am having a hard time explaining my thoughts, but thanks for the practice)

...I don't want a cure because I have little executive function problems and very little sensory problems, but I wouldn't change the way I think because it is who I am. If I had trouble walking or I couldn't go near cars then I would wish for a cure for those certain problems.



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20 Feb 2011, 4:15 pm

Only from the sensory and executive problems. I'm fine with not being very social.



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20 Feb 2011, 5:42 pm

Nosirrom wrote:
DandelionFireworks wrote:
Nosirrom wrote:
Okay,
A person in a wheelchair does not want to be in a wheelchair. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.


But that's not even true; there are people in wheelchairs who would rather not be cured.


You are right. I don't know anyone in those circumstances. So I have no basis for a rebuttal.
It is the things that hold us back that we want to go away, and the people who have the most obvious problems, someone in a wheelchair, ....
(I am having a hard time explaining my thoughts, but thanks for the practice)

...I don't want a cure because I have little executive function problems and very little sensory problems, but I wouldn't change the way I think because it is who I am. If I had trouble walking or I couldn't go near cars then I would wish for a cure for those certain problems.


So... I think you're saying "people want to fix the things that bug them." Is that right?


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20 Feb 2011, 5:44 pm

I do stand behind that.



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20 Feb 2011, 6:12 pm

Language issues are not the same as social issues.

By compulsion I mean like things a person feels an almost involuntary level of force behind a drive to do it, yet it serves little to no purpose on its own.

I'm in a wheelchair and I don't really care whether I have to use it or not. It's not the he'll some people make it out to be.


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20 Feb 2011, 7:03 pm

I wouldn't know.



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20 Feb 2011, 7:03 pm

Mine would be multiple. And I do not want a cure.


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20 Feb 2011, 7:12 pm

In no uncertian terms I love who I am issues and all. I do not want a cure as I am the perfect me if was changed I wouldn't be ME anymore.



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24 Feb 2011, 6:29 pm

I would like to be cured of being short... 5'3" is harsh, even for a woman...



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24 Feb 2011, 6:36 pm

And have life be easy? Screw that.


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24 Feb 2011, 6:43 pm

draelynn wrote:
I would like to be cured of being short... 5'3" is harsh, even for a woman...


What's wrong with being 5'3?


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24 Feb 2011, 7:13 pm

Wow, Dandelion! You really come up with some very intriguing and original questions! Quite awesome. :wink: My biggest problem is sensory issues, and no, I don't want a cure. I feel that many good things about my skills and personality come from AS, so I'd never get rid of it. Yes, there are many problems from AS, and I do so wish I could get rid of sensory issues, but I'll put up with the sensory issues in exchange for my photographic memory, special interests, and honesty.


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