pensieve wrote:
torako wrote:
pensieve wrote:
My first impression was she was talking about people that complain they have it without actually having it.
that's the problem though... there are people who complain that they have it without having it, but a lot of NTs feel that they are qualified to determine which is which, so a lot of legitimately autistic people end up getting flamed for "pretending" to have autism. comments like this could make NTs feel that flaming people that they think are making excuses is an okay thing to do, which it really isn't because you have no way of knowing if the person really is faking or not...
I can tell.
the average NT can't, and they often accuse real aspies of "faking it for attention". i get it all the time, when i'm in the middle of a meltdown, flapping my hands and biting myself, they say "grow up! you're just doing this for attention!"
or when i'm messed up because i haven't had my medication...
or... when i'm explaining why i'm so interested in my special interests... (because that makes sense, not)