I dont want to be kissed!

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I have always found kissing to be tedious, although the idea of it seems alright to me.

I sometimes see women with the most glorious kissable looking lips, but I would still find kissing even them a chore.

Hugging is worse, though.

OK, don't worry, I won't...

You don't have to do anything uncomfortable for you.

But there are lots of different types of kisses. I bet, since your so young, you're only trying one or two ways.

It could be that you don't like the way you are kissing. I remember my first kiss--it was so gross. Eugh. But it wasn't so much that I was adverse to all kissing--just that particular situation.

But, you should only really kiss people you want to kiss, and maybe he's just not the right one for you. You are only fifteen.

Edit: and I don't want to be insensitive because I'm not diagnosed with AS, and I don't know what it's like for a lot of different people. I'm just saying that kissing is an ambiguous term for a lot of different, but similar, actions. And I hope that people explore the different options of kissing before concluding that they cannot tolerate it.

And, it makes me uncomfortable to talk about this, but I'm just trying to help.

I avoid any exchange of internal body juices.

Neither do I. I'm not even interested in starting a relationship.

I'm not a fan of kissing, either. Whenever a girl has started kissing me, after a bit I back up and say, "okay, that's good enough.".

Just to toss this out, it might not be all kissing you hate. It might be his style of kissing. I've never met a guy who can kiss the way I want to be kissed. They've all been too rough and wet, or at worst, slimy even. Eew!

I found girls, on average, kiss much better. It's cleaner, delicate, and just superior in other ways I'm having a hard time articulating. If kissing a girl is a waltz, kissing a guy is like being in a mosh pit. Again, on average. I knew one guy who was a tolerable kisser, and one woman who just about ate my face.

So, it might not hurt to experiment with kissing differently. Find some fantastic looking kisses in movies, and tell him to try his best to kiss like that. You may be surprised by the results.