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04 Jul 2012, 1:21 pm

I haven't encountered this yet, but my prepared script is: *laugh* "don't worry. Since I didn't shoot my ex-husband, I guess the rest of the world is safe [from me.]"

I've had less problems with people trying to pry since I started making it a habit to cheerfully greet my coworkers when I first encounter them each day.


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04 Jul 2012, 1:24 pm

Yarny wrote:
Co-worker: "We don't have to worry about you coming in and shooting everyone do we?"


I never had that happen to me but I imagine myself just saying nothing and shrugging my shoulders.



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04 Jul 2012, 2:19 pm

The recent mass killings here in Seattle were perpetrated by a loner. And he may have been autistic, to boot. He did try to make friends but was rejected from a café which he eventually shot up one morning. From all accounts he spent a lot of time by himself. There seems to be a general idea that loners, when left unchecked, concoct dangerous plans which a few actually do see to its horrendous conclusion. Would someone with a bucketload of friends and good social life go on a killing spree? I don't think so.

To wit: (from The Method and Madness of Monsters by Peter Vronsky, pg. 271): One very common factor in the childhood of serial killers is their loneliness and isolation from peers - even in cases where there is little or no maladjustment in parental histories. As children, they rarely fit in with their playmates. Henry Lucas and Albert DeSalvo were obviously isolated from other children outside their family by their living conditions, but the histories of other serial killers are frequently typical of Peter Woodcocks's. By the subtle rules of society they do not fit in - something is already out of kilter in their personalities.



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04 Jul 2012, 2:35 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
The recent mass killings here in Seattle were perpetrated by a loner. And he may have been autistic, to boot. He did try to make friends but was rejected from a café which he eventually shot up one morning. From all accounts he spent a lot of time by himself. There seems to be a general idea that loners, when left unchecked, concoct dangerous plans which a few actually do see to its horrendous conclusion. Would someone with a bucketload of friends and good social life go on a killing spree? I don't think so.


The message there should be that people who are rejected may well be hurt by this. People who are hurting sometimes feel a need to share the pain. The only difference between Spectrumites and NTs in this regard, is the Spectrumite would be a lone gunman, whereas the NTs would be a group, each armed.


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04 Jul 2012, 4:58 pm

redrobin62 wrote:
Would someone with a bucketload of friends and good social life go on a killing spree? I don't think so.


Many serial killers have been noted as being charming, socially adept individuals who fit in very well with their social surroundings. Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, Dennis Rader, many many others. Lots of friends, some were even regarded as pillars of the community.



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04 Jul 2012, 5:57 pm

Apparently, people who are quiet are always contemplating how to kill everyone or cause mass destruction... Wow... I wonder if people think this about me because I'm so quiet.



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05 Jul 2012, 3:13 am

redrobin62 wrote:
Would someone with a bucketload of friends and good social life go on a killing spree? I don't think so.


Yes, they do, if sufficiently provoked. The difference is NTs would do it with the aid of their friends. Depending on the size and coherence of this group of friends, they might be called a gang, mob or army. Whatever the news calls them, the people they feel provoked them will be just as dead.


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05 Jul 2012, 3:13 am

CuriousKitten wrote:
The message there should be that people who are rejected may well be hurt by this. People who are hurting sometimes feel a need to share the pain. The only difference between Spectrumites and NTs in this regard, is the Spectrumite would be a lone gunman, whereas the NTs would be a group, each armed.

Sociable to the last, aren't they?