Callista wrote:
I don't think it matters all that much, though. I've learned a good deal from other autistics. Whether they have stronger traits, milder traits, more difficulty, or less, doesn't seem to matter when it comes to having things in common and being able to teach each other. Even people who aren't quite autistic--subclinical or having some related disorder--have a lot in common with autistic people. You can broaden it even further, and learn even more, by connecting with people who have disabilities, people who have unusual cognitive traits, and minorities in general.
Comparing ourselves to others tends to get pretty complicated, because there just isn't any sort of single axis along which everybody can be arranged. With that in mind, it seems like we're better off just creating a sort of database of all the different experiences we have--collect them, and not worry about putting them in any particular order.
I just wanted to say I really liked those two paragraphs in particular.
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