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morslilleole
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07 Apr 2013, 3:07 pm

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It is nice. I usually end up doing it for a little while if I am sitting / lying on the grass. But I don't think it would keep me entertained for a longer period of time.


The trick is to daydream while doing it. :lol:


I might have to try that in a couple of months when maybe some of the snow has smelted =P



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07 Apr 2013, 3:11 pm

I love the smell of freshly torn grass.


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07 Apr 2013, 3:59 pm

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:lol: Yeah, sitting or lying in the grass and pulling it up absent-mindedly.


Yup, is me exctly. I feel kind of guilty about killing the grass, but it's almost irresistable. Is this a nervous thing or like a stim or what?



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07 Apr 2013, 4:09 pm

Yes :D I love pulling grass. It has a nice sound when it breaks, and feels good to pull. My old school was right next to a farmer's field, so the grass cross-bred with the crops on one side of the field, and I developed a ritual of pulling the grass out the ground, pulling off the waste material on the outside, and eating the good-tasting crop on the inside. :o



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07 Apr 2013, 4:21 pm

You mean, there are people who don't like the feel of pulling grass?


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07 Apr 2013, 5:23 pm

I think in general, wherever I'm at and whatever I'm doing, I'm always aware of what's around that can be fidgeted with. And it's Aspie-ish to fidget, and I fidget continuously. Fidgeting behaviors are stims in disguise, it seems.

Needless to say, although I don't go out of my way to pull grass, if I'm doing an activity that involves sitting on the grass there is a 100% chance I will. :P



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07 Apr 2013, 6:39 pm

I love running my hands and fingers through grass and playing with the grass and I love pulling the seeds off the top of tall wild grass when I am walking through a field.
I once slept in some tall grass near the Missouri river when I was a kid, while on vacation with my family. I could hear the wind rustling through the grass and the currents of the river. It was a beautiful experience.



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08 Apr 2013, 12:11 am

ThetaIn3D wrote:
I think in general, wherever I'm at and whatever I'm doing, I'm always aware of what's around that can be fidgeted with. And it's Aspie-ish to fidget, and I fidget continuously. Fidgeting behaviors are stims in disguise, it seems.

Needless to say, although I don't go out of my way to pull grass, if I'm doing an activity that involves sitting on the grass there is a 100% chance I will. :P


I think this sums up my personal experience precisely.



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08 Apr 2013, 10:06 am

There's nothing wrong with enjoying grass. That's the very purpose of grass lawns. Why do you think people have put so much effort into technologies to maintain lawns? The problem today is that people no longer view grass the way people used to. It used to be a luxury and status symbol. It used to be part of the garden where people went to relax. They also don't play or enjoy the outdoors as much today. Other forms of technology attached to their hips/hands doesn't let them stop to smell the roses anymore, let alone enjoy lazing about and playing in the grass. Obviously some still do, but their numbers are diminishing: you will always see free-spirited college and university students doing it on campus and it's not considered abnormal there. It's taken for granted: many still love (I assume) the sense they get from it with their eyes, but enjoying it with other senses is too time-consuming or unnecessary. Those who enjoy sitting or laying on grass would have appeared normal in the past because everyone did it. Those who truly enjoy grass are not wierd, you are simply maintaining a spirit that the rest of humanity is losing or repressing.


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08 Apr 2013, 10:05 pm

I loved doing this during elementary school, especially in May and June when the grass was lush and green. It was so calming..the smell, the texture, the crunchy sound, the repetition, the whole experience. :)


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09 Apr 2013, 11:04 pm

I don't understand why "pulling grass" is so significant that it comes up in relation to AS.

Doesn't everyone do this...well, ok...everyone that was alive before electronics took over?



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10 Apr 2013, 1:31 am

Flowers wrote:
I don't understand why "pulling grass" is so significant that it comes up in relation to AS.

Doesn't everyone do this...well, ok...everyone that was alive before electronics took over?


:lol: You're right...it's not really an "aspie thing".... a lot of people do this if they're sitting or lying on the grass in the summer ,enjoying the weather ect. but it's still fun to talk about.



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10 Apr 2013, 1:38 am

I can't sit on grass without pulling it out.
And when the dandelions come out, I kick them.
If leaves are in arm's reach I will pull one off and slowly take it apart.

Nature, I dunno. :roll:



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10 Apr 2013, 8:55 am

I'm a fidget, I have to be doing something with my hands, so if I'm on grass I always end up pulling it out.



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10 Apr 2013, 9:44 am

There's nothing strange about it, I swear it's like a natural instinct built into people haha I notice everyone do it. Whenever I sit on grass I don't even make a conscious decision to start pulling the grass out and fidgeting with it.


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10 Apr 2013, 11:03 am

I remember kids at school used to pull the grass when sitting on the school field at lunch together, as though it was a common habit. I used to do it too, but it wasn't considered strange.


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