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01 Dec 2013, 9:50 pm

The shower head in my shower has such low water pressure that I can barely rinse off with it. My mother won't get a different one and if she did we wouldn't know how to install it. Because of this I quit taking showers and only take baths.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:07 pm

I love having a shower when its a stinking hot day its so refreshing.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:11 pm

nothing like cooling shower water to rinse away the yucky sticky oily sweat.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:21 pm

I love shower! I advice, you should put the fan off. It helps. :lol:


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01 Dec 2013, 10:37 pm

I'm ok with showers. Im always constantly adjusting the heat, angle, EVERYTHING (sort yourself out, brain!) but it's a good way for me to be productive...ish.

However, I also suck at showering because I never remember to do anything past washing my hair (sort of.) 9/10 times I forget to wash my body :oops:


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01 Dec 2013, 10:45 pm

I always follow a routine when I shower so I don't forget anything major. body first, hair last. in order-

*underarms and arms
*right upper torso and right side of neck
*left upper torso and left side of neck
*lower torso and groin
*left upper backside torso and buttocks
*right upper backside torso and buttocks
*left leg and foot
*right leg and foot
*face and ears
*shampoo hair
*rinse from head to toe.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:49 pm

I never washed my hair in the shower when I used to take showers. The water pressure isn't good enough and I don't like getting water on my face. I don't see how you could wash your hair in the shower without getting water on your face.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:55 pm

hanyo wrote:
I never washed my hair in the shower when I used to take showers. The water pressure isn't good enough and I don't like getting water on my face. I don't see how you could wash your hair in the shower without getting water on your face.


It's the only way I can wash my hair in the shower it rinses better, I couldn't cope with washing over the basin like people did years ago.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:56 pm

Aprilviolets wrote:
It's the only way I can wash my hair in the shower it rinses better, I couldn't cope with washing over the basin like people did years ago.


I do mine under the tub faucet. The water pressure is better.



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01 Dec 2013, 10:58 pm

joshuaturbeville wrote:
I love shower! I advice, you should put the fan off. It helps. :lol:


my parents put in a new switch in the bathroom. the only way to have the fan off...is to have the light off too
there is no windows to the outside in our bathroom...so it would be pitch black in there...

before, there were separate on off switches...one for the light...and one for the fan. i was always courteous and turned the fan on then after i showered (when i was done in there and left the room)...but i can't do that anymore.

i'm the only one known and (previously suspected) to have ASD in the entire family...and extended family.
everyone is NT. i feel so alone...and frustrated when they TRY to "accommodate" me, when in reality they make feeble attempts and then thousands of "i could have done that" later after i've had a meltdown.


that's why i love coming here and being amongst my "people" i feel better after being here!


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01 Dec 2013, 11:32 pm

I love taking showers, they're really relaxing to me and they give me time to just sit and think about stuff without getting distracted. Althought I can't enjoy any shower that isn't hot-- it takes away from it somehow.

I can't stand taking baths. It's really awkward to me. Plus, the water gets cold too quickly.



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02 Dec 2013, 12:06 am

I both like and dislike showers.

I dislike them because they're somewhat traumatic.
The transitions into and out of the shower are too intense and relatively uncomfortable.
Also, depending on the situation you might have to deal with other peoples' water usage affecting your heat, and/or you might only have a limited amount of heat, both of which generally suck.

I like them because I like the feeling of the hot water, standing nder it and just warming up my whole body, loosening my muscles and relaxing me.
I like being cleaner afterwards.
I like to sing.
I like to just stand there and think about things.
Also, I shave when I shower, and shaving makes my face not itch, which is nice.
Finally, I blow my nose in the shower extensively because the steam helps loosen the mucus in my sinuses.
It's nice to have clear sinuses for a little while, and it helps my allergies to clear out the old mucus.



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02 Dec 2013, 12:11 am

to guard against abrupt temperature transitions in and out of the shower, in the summer I have a fan blowing and in the winter a space heater going while I shower and while I am drying off.



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02 Dec 2013, 1:23 pm

Simmian7 wrote:
9 times outta 10, i'm crying in the shower.

first, parents hooked up the light switch so that when you turn it on, the fan goes on too. the sound is horrible and it's hard to stay warm. i could put the water on super hot and it would be cold because of the fan sucking all the steam away.

then, they bought that stupid nozzle...the hand held detachable one. it makes the water pressure different every time it's my turn to shower.

then the shower head is always moved. i spend the first 10ish minutes of my shower trying to fix the water pressure and angle.
then my shampoo bottle keeps getting moved. i don't have the correct towels to dry me off. and i hate that sensation of feeling wet and dry. trying to get dressed with that feeling...it makes me meltdown every time.

and my parents wonder every time...why i'm so reluctant to take a shower again.

and let's not forget that someone forgets i'm in there and uses the dishwasher or some other water source and i'm suddenly hit with freezing cold water.

and that whole, don't flush the toilet before showering deal. it's not a myth. it's true!! :roll: :cry: :evil: :? 8O


I understand you completely on this. It was always the same way for me growing up. When I was in the army the showers we had in basic training almost sent me into a meltdown every time because it was one solid stream, not that perfect spray. Not to mention the fact that it was usually freezing. Growing up I hated showers for that reason, and it just didn't feel right. I loved baths because you could play in them with toys, bubbles, or curl up and take a light nap. Could never get enough of it. To this day my wife has to let me adjust the shower head IF we shower together. I have to get the water to a certain temp and gradually step it up to the point that it is scalding hot. Do not despair. You are not alone.


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02 Dec 2013, 1:32 pm

In the last place I lived for a while I had to shower in the dark but there was a window so some light came in.

Our landlord installed a gfci outlet in the bathroom. It made a loud humming/buzzing noise (at least loud to me) that really bothered me and triggered panic attacks in me. He installed it through the bathroom light and after a while I figured out that turning the bathroom light off cut the power to the outlet and stopped the noise. From then until we moved we just left the light off and kept the curtain open during the day and used a flashlight at night. There wasn't a window across from the bathroom and the houses were very close together so no one could see in. It was upstairs too.



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02 Dec 2013, 2:35 pm

Personally, I LOVE my showers.

In, washed, shampooed, pits shaved, face washed, and out in 10 minutes or less. Back to my life.

I do realize that shower-haters have some valid points. I abhor head-movers-- but I've learned to deal with moving it back. Mark the spot on the wall where the spray is supposed to hit with a dot from a Sharpie. Works wonders-- I swear, someone at my in-laws delighted in moving the shower head so it would spray water on the floor just so they could yell at me for getting water on the floor. This makes it fast and easy to put the shower head back in the right place.

They're really NOT kidding about the dishwasher/washing machine/toilet flushing while in the shower business. It was very difficult for my mother (a 45-minute shower fan) to get me to understand and remember this. Saint Alan cured it easily: ONCE, while I was in the shower, he flushed the toilet-- I never scalded anyone again. ONCE, he ran a load of "hot" laundry-- I never froze anyone again. Please be advised that he made sure to explain what had happened, and that he'd done it deliberately to illustrate a point, and to be kind in the explanation, not loud or accusatory or angry, just sensible. Try it on YOUR family.

Spray hurts-- sometimes, I can't tolerate it either. That's generally when I take a sponge bath, or use the kid's leftover bathwater and a pitcher.

The important things here are soap, water, shampoo, and a washcloth. It matters that they are applied frequently. The method of application is far less relevant (unless you happen to be an environmentalist, or just strapped for dihydrous monoxide-- in which case the sponge bath is definitely preferred).


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