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19 Jan 2014, 7:58 pm

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I hope the fact that your can offer you experience and advice to younger people on the spectrum in some way makes you feel better about things.

it makes me feel less useless.

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19 Jan 2014, 8:00 pm

auntblabby wrote:

sharkattack wrote:

I hope the fact that your can offer you experience and advice to younger people on the spectrum in some way makes you feel better about things.

it makes me feel less useless.

Less useless means more useful and you come across as a nice person to me.

I would also like to be able to help young people on the spectrum to avoid much of the bullying many of us have had to endure.

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19 Jan 2014, 8:19 pm

^^^
us aspies oughta stick together :thumleft:

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19 Jan 2014, 8:21 pm

auntblabby wrote:

^^^
us aspies oughta stick together :thumleft:

That gets my vote.

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19 Jan 2014, 8:25 pm

WP was my lifesaver.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:00 pm

Sticking together. making it easier for the coming generations. hey, if we live a lOOOOOOOOONG life, making our own last years better. That is why I come here and why we're having AutHaven next month [still time to sign up]

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19 Jan 2014, 9:13 pm

wish I could afford to travel more.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:30 pm

47 and never had a relationship. Not for want of trying either.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:31 pm

9 years older than you and never had one-not for want of trying though-I do want to have one but no one wants me.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:35 pm

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I'm 43 and have never had a relationship. My best friend is 44 and hasn't either, as far as I know.

My complete inability in this regard (and the specific form it takes - I get obsessed with a person I'm attracted to, but have no idea how to form a relationship with them) is one of the reasons I think I may be on the spectrum.

I know people that can enter relationships at the drop of a hat and some that try to base them on looks(eyes,body,hair color) or social status as far as salary goes and could care less about what is inside of a person or their character

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19 Jan 2014, 9:38 pm

no wonder there are so many divorces. people marry the outside which changes.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:43 pm

Well ive never had anything i would call a relationship. Never really got that far.

Only 30 though. but yeah, no reason why it should change.

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19 Jan 2014, 9:49 pm

I said that as recently as my 52nd year of taking up space on earth. but life is what happens when you've made other plans. I used to angrily spit out "I'd rather frigggin' DIE than wait that friggin' long for somebody!" then somebody here took an interest in me and I realized it wasn't just about me.

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19 Jan 2014, 10:14 pm

i assume you mean romantic relationship

luckily im hilarious so i have had one real boyfriends and two interests that worked out.

in middle school some boys called themselfs my boyfriends but i always ended up screwing them up.

now, i dont give two Sh*ts because im 16 and something is bound to happen

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19 Jan 2014, 10:53 pm

sharkattack wrote:

I am almost 40 how many can say the same?

I am 56 and I can say the same.

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19 Jan 2014, 11:05 pm

46 and zilch.

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