''Believing'' lies

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Lately I have found that when someone lies, part of me knows that they're lying or could be lying, but I still believe it. I don't know if I strongly believe it like a naive person, but I get a strange feeling about it either one way or the other. I think it's because I try to look at both the true side and the false side of what the person has told me. I think ''hold on, it could be a lie because.......'' and then I think, ''but maybe it could be true because.......''

Obviously I don't believe it if it's too far-fetched. I analyze what I have been told and think ''hold on, that can't be possible because of........, so they must be lying.''

Analogy:-
If someone said to me, ''look outside, it's raining frogs!'', I will not attempt to turn around and look out of the window to see if it's raining frogs. If somebody said, ''look outside, it's raining!'', I would turn around and look out of the window, even if it's a sunny day, because there are two possibilities; yes it might not really be raining and they could be lying, or it might well be raining. You can have rain whilst it's sunny and not notice it's raining until you look out. So the simple statement ''it's raining outside'' can possibly be a lie or possibly could be a truth. So I'll usually believe it (in most general contexts). If somebody said ''it's raining frogs'', I am smart enough to know it does not rain frogs, so I will immediately know it's not a truth.

Do you see what I mean? A statement with both a true possibility and a false possibility without any proof can trick me but I can still have my suspicions that it could be a lie. A statement what sounds too ridiculous to be true does not fool me.

Any thoughts on how lies are interpreted?