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10 Jul 2014, 8:55 pm

It seems like you're happy at your school; am I right?

Now: my viewpoint on "suburbs." Correct me if I'm wrong:

I grew up in the Bronx, and Queens, NYC. Still live in Queens.

The NYC suburbs are the same as, say, the Chicago suburbs. To call a place a "suburb," in the US, to me, usually carries a positive connotation--that of relative affluence. Dobbs Ferry is a suburb of NYC. Skokie is a suburb of Chicago. Yonkers is not usually thought of as a "suburb" of NYC, but as a separate "city." Its affluence varies. Daly City, is not, I believe, considered a "suburb" of San Francisco; it's not a poor place, but it's not an affluent place, either.

In places other than the US, however, a "suburb" carries a more neutral connotation. There are "good" suburbs and "bad" suburbs.

In the UK, if I'm not mistaken, a "suburb" is an area which is not in the Central Business District (CBD) of a city like Manchester, or London, no matter how "urban" it seems.

In South Africa, a "low-density" suburb is a good area, a "high-density suburb" is usually somewhat of a bad area.



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10 Jul 2014, 8:57 pm

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Are you going to "university?" Here in the US, "college" is the exact same thing as "university."


Never knew that. So Americans call University College? So what do they call College? Do you just go straight to Uni after high school or what? Right now I'm in college not university.

I'm thinking about going to university (or as American call it 'College') after I've finished college. I might try it but it's the thought of having to move out of my mothers house, having to learn how to look after myself when I can't even buy milk or make toast without stressing. I mean, I can't even tie my own shoelaces properly.

I've got 2 years left in college and I can stay an extra year after that if I feel I am not ready. Maybe my confidence will be better in 2 years, who knows?


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10 Jul 2014, 9:02 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
It seems like you're happy at your school; am I right?

Now: my viewpoint on "suburbs." Correct me if I'm wrong:

I grew up in the Bronx, and Queens, NYC. Still live in Queens.

The NYC suburbs are the same as, say, the Chicago suburbs. To call a place a "suburb," in the US, to me, usually carries a positive connotation--that of relative affluence. Dobbs Ferry is a suburb of NYC. Skokie is a suburb of Chicago. Yonkers is not usually thought of as a "suburb" of NYC, but as a separate "city." Its affluence varies. Daly City, is not, I believe, considered a "suburb" of San Francisco; it's not a poor place, but it's not an affluent place, either.

In places other than the US, however, a "suburb" carries a more neutral connotation. There are "good" suburbs and "bad" suburbs.

In the UK, if I'm not mistaken, a "suburb" is an area which is not in the Central Business District (CBD) of a city like Manchester, or London, no matter how "urban" it seems.

In South Africa, a "low-density" suburb is a good area, a "high-density suburb" is usually somewhat of a bad area.


I have no idea what you are talking about. I just call a inner city areas (like council flats and high populated areas) Urban. Places like small towns and privately owned housing in medium populated areas (Like Scarborough, where I used to live) Suburban and places like the country side (Similar to the outskirts of Scarborough where it is all farms and woods and hardly any housing) Rural.


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10 Jul 2014, 9:09 pm

In America, colleges could be stand-alone, or could be components of a "university." All "colleges" grant at least Associate Degrees (the 2-year degree in America). Most colleges grant Bachelor's degrees. Community colleges only grant 2-year degrees.

When a person goes to "college" in the US, they are going to "Uni." I'd never even seen the term "Uni" until I came to this site! No American uses the term "Uni."

The UK "college" is a combination of our "trade schools" and "community colleges" (even though community colleges also grant 2-year degrees in addition to certificates. 4 year colleges grant certificates, too, but they're not an important aspect of 4 year colleges--the bachelor's degree is. "Adult education" serves a similar function to the UK's "further education."

The UK's GCSE is analogous to the US's SAT and ACT--except it's much more comprehensive than the American tests. A-levels are somewhat equivalent to the American 2-year/Associates degree.



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10 Jul 2014, 9:10 pm

I stand corrected, then, in relation to the UK's notion of suburbs.

After high school, should Americans decide to continue their education, they usually go to either community colleges (2 year colleges) or 4 year colleges. The terminal degree at a 2 year college is the Associates Degree. A 4 year college's terminal degree could either be a bachelor's, a masters, or a doctorate. Usually, if it's a stand-alone college, the terminal degree is the bachelor's. If it's a large university, the terminal degree is frequently either a master's or a doctorate (usually a doctorate). Even if a student goes to a large university, he/she is "attending college."

Sometimes, people go to "trade schools," which are equivalent to "colleges" in the UK or Canada. It's also somewhat common for people to take "trade school"-type courses within community colleges or even 4 year schools.



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10 Jul 2014, 9:36 pm

To OP. No I don't or have ever used PECS cards (though I like them for some reason). I do use a visual schedule for the week, also cards for getting dressed.


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10 Jul 2014, 9:41 pm

I hope I didn't bombard you with a "wall of text," Coda.

I wish you Excellent Luck in your pursuit of your dreams.



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10 Jul 2014, 10:41 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I hope I didn't bombard you with a "wall of text," Coda.

I wish you Excellent Luck in your pursuit of your dreams.


I don't think it was a wall of text... Maybe a 'window' of text but not a wall and I don't mind it either. It's really nice to hear new information and opinions from other people. It was the main reason I decided to join this forum. :)


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11 Jul 2014, 9:32 am

Lumi wrote:
To OP. No I don't or have ever used PECS cards (though I like them for some reason). I do use a visual schedule for the week, also cards for getting dressed.


Yeah, I use cards for getting dressed, cleaning my room, crossing the road (I have no self preservation). I love PECS cards. Maybe it's the fact it gives you a visual representation of what you need to do rather than just using words.


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11 Jul 2014, 12:24 pm

Coda wrote:
Yeah, I use cards for getting dressed, cleaning my room, crossing the road (I have no self preservation). I love PECS cards. Maybe it's the fact it gives you a visual representation of what you need to do rather than just using words.


exactly


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11 Jul 2014, 11:29 pm

I don't use PECS, but I use a lot of visuals where other people use words. My lists and schedules and things are all drawn in pictures; It makes life a lot easier -- helps me get things done faster and with fewer mistakes, and is way less exhausting.


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15 Jul 2014, 7:15 pm

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It's Shirley, Croydon, Surrey, United Kingdom. I don't add Croydon because I don't want people knowing I live on the outskirts of Croydon. :lol:

I was born in Scarborough but moved to Shirley in 2008.


Sorry - but you live in Greater London, not Surrey. It got shifted under Greater London in 1965. Health-wise, it's far better to be resident within a London borough than a -shire county. Especially as in LB Croydon you are automatically under the world's best mental health trust, SLaM, and we get Freedom Passes in London.



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15 Jul 2014, 7:18 pm

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I don't like it in Croydon, either. It's too shop-heavy. I think, in England, they call it a "shopping precinct."

I should have said "biggest borough," rather than "biggest city" LOL

Are you familiar with Woolwich, Eltham, Shooter's Hill, Blackheath? My wife's son used to live in Shooter's Hill. I like Blackheath's heath.

Are you allowed to use your PECS card in your college?


Eltham, Woolwich & Lewisham are dumps, but the other places you mention are alright