Do you tell people you're an Aspie?

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I do tend to tell people, mostly because I either don't want them to misunderstand my strange behaviour and just think I'm weird or obnoxious, or because I need something from them, like at school or work. I really didn't want to have to tell my employers at work, but I eventually had to before they stuck me with a position that I couldn't deal with because of my sensory problems, and the constant exposure to unending streams of people the new position would bring. I tell all of my professors for whom I think the information will be relevant (eg if I need specific accommodations or just more understanding). It definitely helps that I'm majoring in psychology, and as such, not many of my professors need an explanation for what AS is.

I'm generally not ashamed of my diagnosis, nor do I think it will make people think poorly of me. Those who do think less of me because of it are people I don't want to be around, so better to weed them out early. Part of me hopes that by telling people, and by teaching them when they don't understand, I'll be doing my small part to help spread awareness of our condition.

do not specifically tell people that I am an Aspie, but I do reference AS to explain certain behaviorisms that I have, and to be honest, most people I know are tired of hearing it, because, as you know, once we Aspies get on a topic we tend to go a bit over the top.

No. I've only told my family, my best friend and my bosses (and only so they could make accommodations). And even with the select few people I've told, I've noticed that not one person understood what that truly meant. One of my bosses told me it was nothing and my diagnosis doesn't mean they have to accommodate me (until I pointed out the ADA), my sister argued with me and said I wasn't Autistic and not to say I was and my friend thought that having ASD meant that I organized my socks for hours and talked about it non stop. Sometimes I wish I could just tell people that I have ASD and make things easier on us both (especially when I have customers who insist I'm being 'rude' or comment on my tics) but honestly people just don't understand ASD and, more often than not, simply scares them and makes them leery of you

In general, no.