20 Feb 2015, 4:12 am
bungleton wrote:
Not keen on posting a picture on the indexed part of the forum, but apparently I'm not unattractive... Unfortunately I seem to have a somewhat limited ability to follow through on that, what with the talking and the not being able to tell if the other party is actually interested etc etc... I find that there are a lot of deeply ingrained opinions and behaviours that are hard to get past.
You've probably met some 'hot' Aspie guys but they've either self-doubted themselves out of the game or pretended to be obnoxious because they don't want to entertain the possibility of being rejected, cheated on, dumped etc etc again. Or they've become really transfixed by you, to the point that you nope the f$ck out because it's this really weird, complete kind of puppy dog/lost child love that's really hard to deal with.
Can I state for the record that this is something I have no first-hand experience of, and I am pulling this entire post out of my butt because it sounds good
You know how some people are all, 'you just need to be yourself!'
But it's in ones' nature to be self-critical (or should I say, 'great at self-analysis!')
So one is themselves, which is self-critical... I mean, analytical...
Only to be told that one is too negative?
Even going so far as to be told that they should play their innate sense of negativity down?
Repress feelings, snake bites tail, etc etc
You've probably met some 'hot' Aspie guys but they've either self-doubted themselves out of the game or pretended to be obnoxious because they don't want to entertain the possibility of being rejected, cheated on, dumped etc etc again. Or they've become really transfixed by you, to the point that you nope the f$ck out because it's this really weird, complete kind of puppy dog/lost child love that's really hard to deal with.
Can I state for the record that this is something I have no first-hand experience of, and I am pulling this entire post out of my butt because it sounds good
You know how some people are all, 'you just need to be yourself!'
But it's in ones' nature to be self-critical (or should I say, 'great at self-analysis!')
So one is themselves, which is self-critical... I mean, analytical...
Only to be told that one is too negative?
Even going so far as to be told that they should play their innate sense of negativity down?
Repress feelings, snake bites tail, etc etc
I think I had a crush on an aspie guy in middle school, but he didn't like me much. I thought he was pretty cute though, and I bet he probably doesn't look too bad today.
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20 Feb 2015, 9:58 am
goofygoobers wrote:
Okay, there's a thread about hot aspie girls, but now I'm gendering reversing that.
Where are all the hot aspie GUYS?! Give photograpic proof and we'll judge you.
Where are all the hot aspie GUYS?! Give photograpic proof and we'll judge you.
I think this is a case of two wrongs not making a right. Nice try though. It's a shame that making a thing gender-equal doesn't always make it better.
I see the other thread got locked. Don't really understand why, there wasn't much sign of vitreol immediately before that, but I was kind of glad.
Don't let me rain on the parade though. We might see some really good jokes on this thread.
20 Feb 2015, 10:10 am
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20 Feb 2015, 10:19 am
I'm in my 20's not married and never had a long term relationship actually
Still stand by what I said, connection and attraction is key.
Not saying we should go for looks but you have to be attracted to someone both physically as well as mentally.
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