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22 Nov 2015, 8:52 am

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Just a thought of myself, but i feel totally alien in this world in my own bubble in the corner observing humanity, i see people like as if i have been flung here from the far corner of the universe.. Enclosed in my own bubble, reaching out but can never quite connect.. Almost as if the people around me are alien themselves. ( may sound a little cliche, but this is how i have explained it most of my life long before i knew about AS )


i hope people understood this explanation.


Apologies.. What was the concern? was it a bad description?



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22 Nov 2015, 8:57 am

Logic, bluntness and social anxiety are pretty common I think.



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23 Nov 2015, 12:32 am

Uncle wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
Uncle wrote:
Just a thought of myself, but i feel totally alien in this world in my own bubble in the corner observing humanity, i see people like as if i have been flung here from the far corner of the universe.. Enclosed in my own bubble, reaching out but can never quite connect.. Almost as if the people around me are alien themselves. ( may sound a little cliche, but this is how i have explained it most of my life long before i knew about AS )


i hope people understood this explanation.


Apologies.. What was the concern? was it a bad description?


no :) it's a perfectly fine description. i meant that i hope people understood the description you gave them, of being enclosed in your own bubble in a remote corner of the world. it's relateable.


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23 Nov 2015, 3:00 am

I second logic, and stimming, and at least FEELING awkward in social situations. It seems quite a few can fake it well enough, at least for some time.


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23 Nov 2015, 5:23 am

To be comfortable on their own.


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23 Nov 2015, 5:47 am

Kiprobalhato wrote:
Uncle wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
Uncle wrote:
Just a thought of myself, but i feel totally alien in this world in my own bubble in the corner observing humanity, i see people like as if i have been flung here from the far corner of the universe.. Enclosed in my own bubble, reaching out but can never quite connect.. Almost as if the people around me are alien themselves. ( may sound a little cliche, but this is how i have explained it most of my life long before i knew about AS )


i hope people understood this explanation.


Apologies.. What was the concern? was it a bad description?


no :) it's a perfectly fine description. i meant that i hope people understood the description you gave them, of being enclosed in your own bubble in a remote corner of the world. it's relateable.


oh... :) I am a bit of a visual thinker! Here is a visual representation of my original words :) I think this might be something many can relate to! ;)
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23 Nov 2015, 5:58 am

Difficulty socializing, not having many friends, and tend to think more logically.



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23 Nov 2015, 6:57 am

Without a doubt, eye contact. Either too little or way too much.



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24 Nov 2015, 12:06 am

i think collections are something lots of aspies and auties have.

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yep! this is actually how i got to learn my social skills, more or less. i "pass" now. :mrgreen:


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24 Nov 2015, 3:28 pm

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24 Nov 2015, 3:32 pm

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24 Nov 2015, 6:00 pm

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25 Nov 2015, 5:39 am

I've never said that. I'd say the one unifying component in umpteen asders I have been around, is I can usually sense they are on the spectrum.



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25 Nov 2015, 5:52 am

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26 Nov 2015, 1:03 am

JakeASD wrote:
To be comfortable on their own.


to be their best while being left alone.


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