Is this a sensory issue?

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I have trouble with the parking, reversing, distance between parked cars etc.

I was just wondering, is anyone affected by being a passenger in a 'fast' car. This drives my mum loopy when my dad is going at what are really slow speeds. It plunges her into a rather distracting panic for my dad. He has even been known to pull over and tell her to drive.
Before I thought it was her perception of the road surface making her feel like she was going fast, or to do with the markings being done at different patterns so it seemed faster for her.
Having read this I wonder whether she is actually unable to judge the speed at all (when she drives its very slow)

My mum stresses out when my Dad drives but only when he's accelerating. Myself I pay little attention to driving.

When my Mum's driving it's an all-absorbing task. She must not have the radio on and if she's talking it's only at the lights.

I'm the same way, which is why I don't drive. Never thought about WHY I perceive being in a vehicle this way, no one ever asked/paid attention/considered it worthy of investigation. I trust my boyfriend & know he's a good driver-though can't say the same of all the others around us-but the point is, I still am terrified every time we're in the car. We're moving-that makes me feel ill already. We're near edges of other moving things-that's suspensefully not fun. Turning, making quick decisions, judging who's gonna' go where when at an intersection-all that's way beyond me.
Haven't got that built-in estimation capacity that some humans possess-my father could, I'd always marvel at how he could look at (or remember) a distance and assign it a measurement. I can do math fine, but have no sense as to how close or distant something is, other than the imprecision of "near" & "far". Can't look at a person & guess their height, weight or age, can't look at a sidewalk and tell you how many feet 'til the next block. Only reason I even have an idea of how many miles the last ride I took in the car was, or how long it took to leave & return, is from road signs & clocks that inform me-can't guess amounts (quantity of units) of time or distance other than with the vague terms "much" or "little"-based on my subjective irrational perceptions.
Putting the math together with the "word problems" (circumstances in which one would use math) one encounters in the environment is the difficulty. No way to apply the math, because I look and I don't see what or however people with "estimation ability" do, the surroundings aren't giving me feedback that helps me measure. Only variations on "safe" or "unsafe" (whether emotionally or physically).

[b]Well, I guess I'd like to make a slight amendment-as was noted in the general discussion on depth perception, if I close one eye, I can see better. Or focus better? I'm doing it right now, do it whenever I need to concentrate on something visually. Or it becomes visual "noise", impossible to take in...like it's no longer coherent. But they say my depth perception is fine...so what's up here?

Me neither, and I always read about them as usually being part of a diagnosis which makes me wonder if that means I can't have AS. I'm pretty much fine with depth perception (I hate parallel parking, and driving in general, but I don't think I'm unusual with that).

I did read one thing that mentions smells, but I'm not sure what that would. I'm really sensitive to smells, I hate chemical/artificial smells, I hate the smell of a lot of people together-especially eating (and don't like the feel of tons of people around me either).

I think I'm totally normal with hearing too. High pitched sounds can bug me that other people say they can't hear (like the noise a CRT TV makes, or the sound my cell phone charger makes-can't sleep with either on because of that noise). But I think that just means I have better hearing, at least for high pitched sounds than a lot of people.

I have problems judging distance, but it doesn't seem to affect my driving to speak of. I guess just don't ask me how many feet, yards or meters . . . to the person who as a passenger never sees what's going by, I often as a passenger get so caught-up in all the sensory input that I don't pay attention to where I'm going. If I'm driving, using directions or a map, or know a general area, I'm just great.

all this sensory stuff is quite interesting to me , i have no depth perception but i have only one eye that works properly , the other is legally blind so my lack of depth perception was always put down to that. when im walking things appear nearer or further away than they actually are or at least i feel that they are , crowds really bother me because i cant keep track of all the movement . I am hypervigilant and dissociate , i am very light sensitive and have poor balance , all of this has been put down to having just the one working eye , however most people i have spoken to dont seem to have been as affected by having no depth perception as i have so i am now wondering wether all this stuff is actually Aspergers syndrome , i hardly go out now because its just so exhausting and my anxiety is so high i dissociate . Is there anyone else here who has high anxiety due to difficulty coping with movement and a general feeling of being physically and mentally exhausted trying to navigate out side ?
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bb natty:

Probably someoneone else has exactly that. A lot of people with physical problems get bad anxiety and/or depression (me included, at times).

For me it worse at night or when visibility is poor.