why are some online gamers so rude
It's the standard etiquette of modern gaming, you shouldn't let it bother you. If your losing past the point where it's inconceivable that you'll recover, then you "scoop", insult your opponent, and then leave/request a rematch. Your also supposed to insult your opponent(s) even if you win.
GG is considered old school, dead, and in some instances even an insult.
I see it all the time in face to face MTG, where I get a lot of Scoops followed by "you bastard, I'm out" or "f**k you, again?". You can try and revive it or you can just accept it for what it is, the newest and lasted trend.
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Yeah some friends & I have pretty savage MTG games. I don't even own a deck, I just know the fuzzy math...
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I'm not even sure their behavior is a weakness. At school, if you're a nerd and bad at physical fights, people won't miss a chance to remind you that you're not better than them in any way just because you apply yourself more and get better grades, and that they can beat you up.
Being technically proficient is what nerds focus on, and the standard way others treat them is by countering it with force. If you defeat them at an online game, they have to make somehow the point that, in real life, they wouldn't let you humiliate them, because, as soon as it became clear they can't beat you playing by the rules, they'd physically assault you or do something more sophisticated to show their dominance by hurting you.
Perhaps they can't really beat you up, but they could if you were the stereotypical nerd they probably identify your online behavior with. Since you won't meet them in real life, they'll never know, but, with many potential nerdy opponents, they'd be right.
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Hi! First post.
I wouldn't think this be an issue in some scrabble game, but there surely is a culture in online gaming that's supportive of trash-talking. It's gonna be more relevant in games whose users are mostly young males. I often find the paradigm funny and competitive, but if someone is playing with just one other person, it probably wasn't to inspire camaraderie amongst their team or to fluster you, it's just an insult. Now, this being the internet, I would hope you could just brush off an insult. Base insults aren't really "right" per se, but it is the culture of the internet to never, ever self-censor your train of thought.
I always used to be thin-skinned and wouldn't talk on my mic in games, but now I can appreciate that it's just fun banter, which I actually brings something to the community.
And yeah, worst case scenario, just ignore him.
