the right to screw over

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I'll tell you this. As an Aspie, I've tended to screw people over that have screwed me over first a lot of times. Hell, even in my area, I have a major reputation of screwing people over to the point where there are death threats on me. Part of the reason why I screwed over people was because I was a whining, snivelling, inconfident prick like snake.

Snake, maybe if you weren't such a prick, people wouldn't hate you as much and you wouldn't screw so many people over.


s**t will always happen to us because we're Aspie, but not dealing with it well will determine if we're clueless pricks or just guys that tend to be spaced out and not have a clue but are likeable in a way.

-Lee

Are we trying to be robots here? I TOTALLY disagree with accusing another poster of having a crybaby attitude etc...I mean, for f's sake, people have the right to their feelings and to speak honestly and openly of them here. I think to put someone down for that is unacceptable. Maybe some prefer to keep the old stiff upper lip, shut up and get on with it attitude, but that is them and that is their choice and it is the choice of others to be how they are.

I'm a female Aspie, and I was bullied and excluded mercilessly when I was in school (and have been, at times, since then). So no, it isn't just the guys who get screwed on this.

i generally agree with the first poster except for this sexism which it is no matter what you try to say. about im a female who has suffed all the things you said and more your sex has little to do with it, the most you can truthley say is that males are more likely to get physically abused and females are more likely to get sexually abused.

SeriousGirl

The damage done to me was by the "bullies" who wished me to live to them and their lives: peers, relatives and total strangers; never my parents. Everyone (except those heavenly few) gave me verbal abuse and took advantage of my blind innocence to deception throughout high school.

A group of males: ‘…fag!’
A group of females: ‘…that loner.’ '...get away from me!' When I sat near them to try and interact
A solitary female: ‘…why don’t you talk?’ With that look of disgust….
A solitary male: ‘…fag!’ Who I dropped on the spot and subsequently suffered the consequence of not knowing how to respond to verbal abuse; gee, it’s my fault I cannot respond how you think I should

I’m an observer, it’s all I could do since I couldn’t talk and I observed that I had it the hardest during my stint of high school; I was the only student to leave in year eleven (it hurt too much). I had the lowest grades and the most abuse out of the hundreds my age.

*SHRUG* I guess that's what you get when an [autistic] individual is placed into a pack of different animals. It hardened my heart, hardened my mind; yet allowed me to forgive these and every individual who is ignorant of that which they don't know, they know no better or different.

Prowling Paradox knows what she's talking about, and is up to saying it a lot better than I can right now. And, at the moment, you don't sound so d***** forgiving, if you'll excuse my saying so. Certainly not of women.