People Hate Me Cause I'm Ugly

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I was trying to be sarcastic/funny in the title of the thread... I was basically trying to say, "I can't understand why people act like this towards me, maybe I'm ugly?" Well, I'm not ugly but there's nothing really special about me in the looks department either. I'm 50 years old, 6'1", bald and could afford to lose about 25 pounds. I'm poor and my car looks like a piece of s**t, cause it is. So it's not a money jealousy thing either. About the boyfriends possibly trying to warn me off. I'm respectful towards other people and haven't done anything to cause them to act this way towards me. Maybe I have one of those b***h resting faces or something? The examples I gave were just a few out of what seems like hundreds of examples I could give from various different people over the years. I know it's probably normal to have some conflicts in life with people over time but the amount I have seems excessive and I never do anything to start the conflict. People just start s**t. I usually retaliate too. (lol!) I'm not the type that likes being pushed around and I think I come across that way (as a pushover) and it attracts psychotic control freaks who think they can manipulate me, but they quickly find out that they judged me wrong and I let them know... then the psychopaths go around and discredit or bad mouth me to others. That's what I think the tobacco spitting guy did. Saw me when I moved in.. judged my friendly peaceful demeanor as weak, tried to get me to give him my password, failed.. then got mad. (?) Then told the neighbors that I'm an a**hole or something? I don't know. I've been dealing with this crap for a long time and every now and then I get sick of it and need to vent it out some. I don't have any friends or family to talk to so I appreciate you guys being nice and taking the time to read this and your input helps too... thanks.

As a much much younger woman than I am now, people used to hate me because I was good looking. So haters will always hate on something, and you experience the same as your opposite kind often do. Being good looking has some advantages too, for sure, but hate is never a positive when it is attached to superficial things that don't relate to the person within and their Self.

"Hate is never a positive when it is attached to superficial things that don't relate to the person within and their Self."

My apologies, then. I couldn't tell you were joking.

Also: I don't know what else to say, just laid out the possible scenarios. In the case of all that, I would say to sinply not pay them any mind. People who decide they know you without actually speaking to you aren't worth getting to know (I feel as if this is slightly ironic despite claiming I wanted to be 100% honest with you to frame possibilities).