Aspergers boyfriend blocked me for no reason

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Based on your description, he's not really much of a boyfriend, and has been using you as a booty call. He also uses drugs, from what you've said here.

So: if you've been hanging on to him because you think you can save him, please rethink that. Only he can save him, and until he wants to, he's just going to hurt people who try to do it for him. (Also, one of recovery's dirty little secrets is that it usually doesn't work unless the person takes serious time alone to work on it. So even if he wants to be saved, he will probably end up going it alone for the duration.)

If you've been hanging on to him because he's gorgeous, if he is, and the sex is great, if it is, think about how much better all of that would be with someone who actually makes *you* the priority in his life - not just some of your body parts, or whatever recreational drug he's currently into. Believe me, you can't make someone love you if they've already put you in the "appliance" category, no matter how good you are to them. Doesn't happen. And if he's seriously into drugs of any kind, he will have a lot of trouble seeing *any* other human being as anything but an appliance, a source of funds, or a supplier.

Sorry, I know this sounds harsh, but the reality of this situation is not benign, and the sooner you find a way to strike out on your own, for yourself, the better off you will be. Good luck. Be safe.

You might of done NOTHING & he blocked you because he found someone else

Damn girl this sounds almost identical to the situation with my ex... He does not have aspergers - at least not diagnosed although when I got the diagnose he said he recognized himself in a lot of the symptoms - but he does have a mental illness diagnosed.

I broke up with him after a year, he got very upset and told me never to speak to him again and that I am a horrible person. One month later he texted me out of the blue asking if I wanted to go for a cup of coffee, after that we decided to stay friends. After a few months he told me he had started getting into drugs although nothing heavy and he had stopped taking his medication. From then on he got even more impulsive than before and very rude, would call me names and get angry over nothing as well as shaming me for not wanting to do drugs. This summer he deleted me on Facebook after a pretty silly argument (we've had much worse arguments in the past and he's always apologized afterwards and so have I) and I was too angry to care but after a few weeks I attempted to make friends again and find out why he got so upset + I was concerned about his mental health. He accepted my friend request then ghosted me right away again and kept ignoring every message until eventually saying he's not mad he just wants nothing more to do with me without giving me any explanation as to why and then deleted me on Facebook again. Haven't heard from him since. I did tell him I was seeing someone right before he deleted me and it seemed to upset him which is odd because I had asked him not too long ago if he would ever be interested in getting back together and he said no and that he has no feelings for me what so ever. He also had not met a new girl and wasn't looking for one, he's a loner and doesn't really like people so that can't be a reason either + he'd told me this same year that if he ever did meet someone new he'd never let her come between our friendship.

He has always been very impulsive and has refused to speak to me many times in the past only to act as if everything is fine again a while later, it's never been this long without us having any contact before though not even after the breakup. I have no idea why this is but I know I can ghost someone when i'm really upset at them although not to this degree of acting childish and refusing to explain what's wrong + he said he's not even upset with me. I don't really have an answer to give but I wanted to share my story as to say you're not alone and because my situation felt so eerily similar. Hope things work out for the two of you. It must feel even worse if the two of you were dating.

Well, of course that happens! It doesn't bother me in the least, and there is no reason why it should, especially since I've notice that those who tend to "Block" me or put my account on "Ignore" also seem to eventually get themselves banned (i.e., a few Trump fans back in the Spring), or maybe they get themselves blocked by so many people that no one ever responds to their posts, and they give up on posting.

Well, then just consider it a "break-up" and move on with your life. There are lots of available men, so there is no reason to obsess over just one.

When you live in a small town in Maine it is hard to find one.

Do you live in the only small town in Maine? Does Maine have no others towns at all?

I was just blocked "for no reason" and I never even interacted with her nor have I ever tweeted anything by her or left her any comment.


https://twitter.com/daveybuoysmith/stat ... 6879154183


This person apparently has a auto block on her page and I somehow ended up on it. If someone has blocked 500,000 people on social media, then obviously the issue is with that person, not with you nor the people they have blocked. If you find yourself blocking that many people, then the problem might be you. It was good to see some people calling her out on it.

Yeah but I know just about everyone at my high school. The other 2 high schools are 30/40 minutes away from me.

Oh, high school ... never mind.

You may have to wait until you graduate and/or get a car of your own.