Can An Autistic Man Be Very Social?
The majority of people with Aspergers/Autism find social interactions very frustrating because of the inability to read non-verbal cues and tone of voice that are critical for social interactions.
It is hard to learn non-verbal cues, judge situations, pick up on subtle changes in tone of voice that are critical
It is hard to pick up on other people's emotions/feelings because of the lack of empathy that comes with having Aspergers/Autism.
Dealing with endless social rejections and feeling like a failure make us Autistics more likely to withdraw socially and avoid social situations.
Social situations and all the stuff involved that never comes naturally to me and appearing to be a freak/weird to others is so humiliating.
Im social but in short bursts, maybe a few min or hours depending on stress levels, then need time alone.
I absolutly hate being constantly round people 24/7 like when i lived in a shared house at uni.
Sends stress levels through the roof.
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"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends upon the unreasonable man."
- George Bernie Shaw
