Are all Autists unemployed?

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Not all, some of us are able to work, although I think the unemployment figure for people with ASD is something like 80%. I think the sad truth is that being anti-autistic is still not understood as being just as bigoted as being anti-women, anti-black, anti-gay, etc. Most people see the issue as one of "autistic people need to change to become more like NTs" and not one of "what can we do to create environments in which autistic people can thrive."
I am lucky enough to be able to almost pass as NT, and I have strong enough technical skills that smart employers will see me as valuable. Even so, I face challenges because my behaviour is never going to be what NTs want it to be.
And when I say something, or write something, that doesn't meet NT expectations there is a strong bias towards thinking that I am wrong for hurting other people's feelings, and there is never any thought to the idea that maybe being professional should include accepting blunt criticism without getting all emotional about it.
It's weird when you think about it: it is worse to tell someone that their idea is stupid, than it is to be someone with stupid ideas who lets their emotions get in the way of their learning.
Similarly, workplaces think that one of the important things to provide for is people's desire to socialize. You rarely see a business thinking about the need of autistic people to be left alone.

I think it is mostly to do with the way jobs/skills/ability is judged amongst NTs. They put them in groups and levels so if you cannot do one thing then it is assumed that you cannot do or will struggle to do anything at the same level and have no chance at anything of a higher level. My abilities are totally out of sink with these assumptions and I believe for others on the spectrum too and maybe even for some other people too.

An easy example of this is the way people group jobs such as waitressing, shop assistant, and bar staff together under the title menial, and assume if you can do one you can do the others, and if you can't do them you will be too stupid to do anything. Stephen Hawkins was clearly too stupid to do anything.

I was a very good bar staff, although it took me time to get the hang of it (longer than most), I am a very good shop assistant, but I could not waitress to save my life (four miserable and humiliating attempt). The big dif is the main/most appreciated by boss skills involved.

Bar staff = HONEST, reliable, able to deal with difficult customers, appear cheerful/friendly, maths/competent on till.
Sop assistant = Honest, reliable, helpful/cheerful, competent on till.
Waitressing = ABILITY TO MULTITASK, hard working, reliable.

For many jobs in order to get anywhere you have to be competent at several skills which I don't think is where our strength is. We tend to be better where we are able to focus on one thing.

For everyone, NT and autistic, we have to work out what our strengths and advantages are. You aren't being forced out into the workplace to do something horrible. That can be an advantage as it can give you time to prepare to do a job that suits you. Or it can be a disadvantage because it leaves you feeling useless and leaves you stagnating.

What skills do you have? what are the main things that makes others think you can't work? what are your interests? NT career advice is s**t for us, but there are lots of auties on WP with jobs so we should be able to point you in the right direction between us.

I am temporarily unemployed (hopefully temporarily) due to the COVID-19 virus, but I was gainfully employed for nearly 18 years at my present place of employment. I am just a part time worker and don't have a really brilliant career, but it gave me some degree of independence.

My entire life is on hold right now, a life I worked hard to build over a period of seven years. I'd hate to see all my dreams disappear for good because of this virus.

Many families in Italy have seen their lives extinguished forever. This is very sad, as I am of part Italian ancestry.

Im i ungrateful if i reject money from the government ( disability benefits) because i dont want to be dependent in others and lose my freedom? I just dont want to work in a protected workplace and live in assisted living, or in german "betreutes wohnen" because i value freedom very much.

Id rather be homeless than losing all my freedom. If i cant even go alone outside, what is security and money worth it? I mean in prison you get free food, free healthcare etc. But is it worth losing your freedom over it?

Thats the thing, engineering doesnt Interest me but jobs with other people actually do. Sometimes i doubt that im autistic und maybe its just social anxiety.

The answer to your question: NO