"Are you male or female?"
Yes.
shopaholic wrote:
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I would suspect that females are not diagnosed as often, because the stereotypical aspie is a male.
Also it seems that it manifests slightly differently in females in that we tend to have different interests and are probably better at "faking it".
(I am female & undiagnosed, although the more I learn about AS, the more convinced I am that I have it.)
I know almost as many females on the spectrum as I do males. Females are often not diagnosed (imho) since they don't seem to meltdown quite as often (and sexist males tend to write those off as females being "menstrual") and one of the most prevalent factors I've seen in female behavior is they make poor decisions about men, particularly when young. I don't know of one who hasn't been (or is getting) divorced and often had been assaulted, either by a husband or boyfriend in the past. Assaulted verbally, sexually and physically in many cases. I don't think they pick up the "warning signs" that NT women may. While most of them I know aren't truly "social" they fake it better than most male Aspie's I know.
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I tried to get in touch with my feminine side.... but it got a restraining order.....