Who's sick of hearing about Autism Speaks?

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23 Jan 2008, 1:47 pm

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Okay, I'm going to use a stereotype of men to make my point, sorry guys. Here goes

When someone has a lot to say and, just once, in the information given, the phrase "naked lady" is mentioned, that's all a guy will hear.

That's been my experience with parents. Their kids aren't one dimensional but if the word "cure" is mentioned, it's like a stim that takes hold on them and blocks out everything else.

Autism Speaks shows the most severe cases to scare everyone into thinking that those cases are common and typcial. Fear sells.

Why can't they balance that stuff with showing all the cool potential in spectrum people and use postive messages to raise money?


Good point.

some of the problem is like you said fear sells. Fear makes money, fear makes them money, fear makes them the best money.

They should find a better way I agree.


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23 Jan 2008, 4:28 pm

My wife and I support Autism Speaks and about 4 other groups around the country that rally behind the causes that effect those on the spectrum. Many may not like them, but they are pushing for changes that will make life better for all on the spectrum. We support many organizations financially and will be involved in two fundraisers this year. It's all good.



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23 Jan 2008, 7:36 pm

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"We are not born to suffer. We are born to thrive. If you live in a dry area and your garden receives little water, you plant plants which like dry soil. But when you are given a plant that likes wet soil, you don't kill it, you water it, you spend one of your 1440 minutes each day watering that plant. Because you know, that given the right care, that little bit of effort can produce spectacular blooms. And so it should be with children like us."

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Parents of newly-diagnosed children will often ask, "Is there a cure?". There is currently no known 'cure' for autism. This does not mean, however, that nothing can be done to help a person with autism. In this section of our website, you can read about some of the 'interventions' which may be of help. Our understanding of autism has grown tremendously since it was first identified in the 1940s, and as we learn more about the condition, more interventions will undoubtedly become available.

Because autism is a 'spectrum' disorder it affects different people in different ways. It is therefore very difficult to generalise about how a person with autism will develop over time. It is particularly important to realise that an intervention - where intervention is considered necessary - which works well with one individual may not be appropriate or effective with another.

The symptoms and characteristics of autism can present themselves in a wide variety of combinations. Both children and adults can exhibit any combination of autistic behaviours in varying degrees of severity . This means that two children, both with the same diagnosis, can act very differently from one another and have varying skills.

Contrary to what many people imagine, however, some children and adults with autism may make eye contact, show affection, smile and laugh, and demonstrate a variety of other emotions. Some go on to hold down responsible employment, have relationships with others, marry and raise children. Like anyone else, people with autism respond to their environment in both positive and negative ways and change as they mature. Many people with autism have an ability to focus on detail and may have good powers of concentration on a single activity provided it is of interest to them. This means they can often achieve a very high level of skill in a particular area. Children with autism can be especially good at learning facts, skills and talents. People with autism tend to be very honest and, if communication skills develop, will report things very accurately and openly.



Your wasting your money on something that probably will never happen, it’s like cancer have they found a cure? repairing someone’s leg, repairing some ones hearing? sight? How about funding ones that help people who are living today or the future. Really can't see why people can't get they heads around it... It's a part of who they are, it be like trying to breed dogs, what you get when you mess with it, tones of other health problems... I don't even know why gluten is a autism thing as it’s an allergy to a slow allergic reaction to the digestive system, & stimming is a metabolic imbalance.

They is a famous movie director that can't remember his name he made edward scissorhands
( looked his name up Tim Burton ) , read his child hood as they was a documentary about him, he fits the not been able to talk when younger, he used art & drawings to communicate ( & I seen others use music, or dance ), he now speaks... & everyone who works with him love his out of box creative thinking, & the way he approaches it different to others, & anyone notice the fact that they outcasts in his movie....
Most of the stuff that is out for autism was already they for schizophrenia like the so called gluten free diet, it's not new... & all the other stuff it's not new...


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23 Jan 2008, 8:00 pm

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I know that I am. I've been hearing about them, since last January. I know that they make people with autism out to be severely handicapped.


I'm not sick of hearing about them because I think they pose a threat to autistic people and that needs to be discussed. They threaten us by promoting a very negative, skewed view of autism. To speak about this is to fight back.



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23 Jan 2008, 9:29 pm

I'm not sick of them, but I'm not going to go over there and poke them with a sharp stick after reading some of these posts...;)



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23 Jan 2008, 9:44 pm

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CockneyRebel wrote:
I know that I am. I've been hearing about them, since last January. I know that they make people with autism out to be severely handicapped.


I'm not sick of hearing about them because I think they pose a threat to autistic people and that needs to be discussed. They threaten us by promoting a very negative, skewed view of autism. To speak about this is to fight back.


Right ON well said!


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23 Jan 2008, 9:55 pm

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My wife and I support Autism Speaks and about 4 other groups around the country that rally behind the causes that effect those on the spectrum. Many may not like them, but they are pushing for changes that will make life better for all on the spectrum. We support many organizations financially and will be involved in two fundraisers this year. It's all good.


I dont have a problem with autism speaks supporting autism, what i have a problem with is that when somebody puts money into research to make sure ASDs don't exist, then thats what makes me upset. I fought soo hard to be where i am today, and to think people just want to cure it, just because now their children is fighting, i really dont understand why cure it, why don't they embrace it, and try to help them fight along with it. Bring the child to all the therapies, do what you go to do, so that child is very high functioning, but to completely delete autism out of that child is like literally rewiring their brain so they can be just like everybody else. For once, embrace the uniqueness, instead of pushing it away :!:


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23 Jan 2008, 11:59 pm

I got sick of those a long time ago 'odd os haing a child 'insert obserd scenerio here' 1 in a million odds of having a kid diagnosed autistic 1 in 150' I didn't need to hear that while pregnant. My goodness, whatever happened to people being themself and loving themselfs for who they are?



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24 Jan 2008, 12:06 am

The Omigod syndrome happened to it.



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24 Jan 2008, 12:26 am

Me, because I still don't know who they are.