How should I define stimming for my NT friend?

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Strapples
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08 Feb 2008, 9:21 am

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with me stimming starts when I need the calming, and doesn't end until I am calm again. If I stop or control it, it is because I have learned to do so in order to be 'acceptable' in what ever situation I find myself or it is a safety issue, like driving in heavy traffic or fog/snow/ice where I have to be in control of my situation. I also have learned to control it when I become aware of myself stimming and staring and I mechanically physically turn myself so I am not staring in someones general direction and (inward sigh) having to stop the soothing stim in order to appear 'more normal.'

sometimes I do it just to reassure others that I AM aware of it and I CAN be in control of it, and when I would much rather derive the benefit I get from the stare and stim its self.


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the problem with me is i havent figured out how to stop or control it till i am calm again...


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08 Feb 2008, 2:53 pm

Like needing, craving, a cigarette, and temporarily satisfying that need by smoking one - until the craving hits again. Yeah it can be controlled; yeah it's voluntary; but controlling it is a lot easier said than done.

(Maybe? I've actually never smoked.)

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08 Feb 2008, 3:24 pm

I usually describe it as fidgeting caused by too much sensory stimulation.


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