After learning about AS, first reaction was, quoting here, "so I'm some kinda fancy ret*d?"
Had always blown off people who claimed "social retardation" as being my main problem. Personally, in total agreement:
Most social people have a form of retardation that causes them to clump together for no dang reason.
What is the stigma with the words "ret*d" and "retardation", is it just that kids yelled the "R-word" at each other on the playground? When you let school boys run things, none of us heterosexuals get to engage in gaiety ever again. Seems ridiculous, "ret*d" should be no more out of bouns than "idiot", if someone is one, well, yeah, that's the word for it. Nobody would mind being called socially gifted or a social genius. It's all Newspeak, replacing the word "bad" with "ungood", as though all negative traits needed to be glossed over. Not a murderer, someone who has Life Preservation Deficit Disorder.
If someone was desribing an Aspie as a social s***-for-brains, that would be an insult, maybe something to get ticked off about. Yes, I'm a ret*d; ret*d, ret*d, ret*d!! A ret*d that blew out 78% of college bound seniors on the SATs (1340), and has an IQ in the 99th percentile (137 verbal test, 150+ written). So what if I am? It is the stigmatizer who has a problem, not me.
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