Would you live in a commune designed for autistic people?

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CelticRose
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21 Aug 2008, 8:16 am

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If a society was completely aspie run, I image a peaceful technology focused society. Though I question an aspies temperment. Dealing with other aspies is all well and good but we'd need people to deal with NTs, and in a community where that is rare I doubt there will be many. Unless they like, had classes specifically to train people to deal with NTs.


There are quite a few of us who can deal with NTs for at least a short period of time. Besides, it might help that the NTs would know ahead of time that we're different because we live in the Aspie community. They would know what to expect from us.


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21 Aug 2008, 8:22 am

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I think it would be nice to live in a commune. I don't like the American culture anymore. The food is toxic, all I see is stores and streets, cars are everywhere, gas is expensive, commercialism is a form of brainwashing. Does anyone else here feel this way? I would like to live in a better world. I'm thinking of a star trek environment where everyone specializes in something and we work together. I don't like the old hippy ways though. They sort of annoy me for some reason. Does the thought of living a simpler life appeal to anyone else out there?


If I knew of such a place in possibly Australia or California, I would move there straight away to try it out. I don't fit in in a city and I feel out of touch with everyone and everything in an urban environment.



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21 Aug 2008, 8:58 am

I don't like the idea of living in an all-autistic environment, no matter what sort of environment it is.

I also don't really like the idea of living in a commune, but then I know too many people who've either grown up in them, or moved to them and found them really destructive, sometimes cultlike, etc.

I also don't like the idea of moving somewhere, that would make it difficult to leave again. Like if the commune somehow handled services in order to be self-sufficient, that would mean that I would have to depend on other people there and it would be a hassle, sometimes an impossibility, to get services on the outside again.


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21 Aug 2008, 9:03 am

No commune at all, thanks.

I don't like being around people.



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21 Aug 2008, 9:07 am

interesting.
kind of goes against natural autistic tendancies to avoid othersin some ways; i'd hate any kind of forced community- even a cummune has to have meetings- i'd hate that. i love living ina city as i am pretty annonymous; growing up in a small village was vile; everyone knew when i acted up, and dissaproved of the way i dressed.
i would prefer to live in a small 1940s town, without the war, and with more tolerant (and less nosey) values. ina really big house surrounded by fields, so noone could see me, and i wouldnt have to see anyone unless i wanted to.



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21 Aug 2008, 9:20 am

I wouldn't like it.

I get too much entertainment out of laughing on the inside at stupid "normal" people around me.


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21 Aug 2008, 9:30 am

Interesting idea. Would it be like the Amish? Except with electricity ! ! We could all wear comfy clothes all the time, and wouldn't have to interact unless we felt like it.


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21 Aug 2008, 11:47 am

Commune? Never.

An all-ASD environment would also be vastly incompatible with my autism.

I also like a regular place with lots of people better. I personally already hate to hang out with a group of several people of a certain type, it gets monotonous and annoyingly otherworldly to my mind.


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21 Aug 2008, 12:16 pm

I value my independence too highly to live in any kind of commune- I need my own space so that I can live by my own rules.

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21 Aug 2008, 12:24 pm

But I'm an NT, and my best friend (actually, my only friend) has AS and is one of the smartest people I know, and I am a good deal more intelligent from knowing him. And additionally, I think he also got something from his friendship with me.

So my question is, even though a commune would make life easier, don't you think by limiting yourself you would also be crippling yourself, since the variety of experience gives richness to life?


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21 Aug 2008, 12:30 pm

I would love to start one maybe in the mountains here in Alberta, it would have to be off the grid, and to be totally self reliant.



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21 Aug 2008, 12:54 pm

[quote]Interesting idea. Would it be like the Amish? Except with electricity ! ! We could all wear comfy clothes all the time, and wouldn't have to interact unless we felt like it.

The Amish are a little too rigid and strict. It would be nice to be amongst spiritual people but I definitely am not wanting to live amongst religious people. Comfy clothing would be great. We can omit all of the expected attire and just where whatever the hell we want.
I'd like to be around peaceful people so vegetarianism would be great but if you want to go out and kill something I can't judge you for that. However, let's boycott the Walmarts and factory farmed food or anything elsea that could dumb us down. Computers are a necessity so they would probably be at the center of the commune.

The reason why I want this is to take back personal power and freedom. I have children and I don't want them to grow up thinking they have to be slaves to an establishment. Is anyone familiar with Pythagoras and the commune he created? That is what I want.
A star trek Pythagorean society.

Spudnik mentioned Alberta Canada, I'd consider it.

For those who say that we need to live in the NT world, I disagree. Henry David Thoreau is immortal now and for what? He moved to the woods and stopped paying taxes. Sure he went to jail but if we have enough aspie heads together we should be able to bust the system and solve some problems.



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21 Aug 2008, 1:48 pm

a commune, well no. I think by its nature it would be to limiting. A aspie city, or better an aspie nation, I think would be a great thing if we can avoid war with the NTs. A society that focuses on intellectual advancement and a non-generalist based educational system sounds rather ideal. But who would do the grunt work? Unless we have a massive robotic work force there will be menial labor, something I am betting most aspies just wouldn't do



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21 Aug 2008, 3:13 pm

By Amish, I meant their simplicity. Simple wooden homes, natural fabric clothing, growing your own crops. Being friendly with other people in the community. Appreciating wildlife. Maybe windmills to generate electricity. No groceries brought in from chain stores. That sort of thing ...


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21 Aug 2008, 4:14 pm

Nah, definitely not for me.



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21 Aug 2008, 4:37 pm

Big "autistic" Brother - :lol: May actually be worth watching instead of just having it on in the background until I find out it's on ...