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24 Sep 2008, 8:31 am

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I would imagine in the case of the fart bag example, your boyfriend was embarrassed that you'd drawn the fart to his attention, and he was refusing to be drawn into the conversation in an attempt to get you to drop the subject.


Haha, he should've known that the subject would've been dropped quicker if he had only answered the darned question to begin with! :roll: :lol:


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24 Sep 2008, 8:50 am

Yeah exactly if he would have told me in the first place the idea sounds stupid but it was funny which I was trying to be. I would have shut up a lot sooner. I would have asked him anyway why does it sound stupid.


After reading that reply I asked my boyfriend and guess what? He admitted it. He said "yeah why?" I read him the response and he laughed. I asked if that's what he thought and he said "yeah and it also sounded painful." I told him why couldn't he say that at the bus stop. :roll:


See this is what happens when people can't be honest with each other. It can backfire and turn into a big argument because someone won't give out the real reason.



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24 Sep 2008, 9:12 am

i am very frightened of the smell of farts.

they are absolutely disgusting to inhale.

i will choose any measure available to escape the smell.

it provides entertainment for some gruff farters to see me scrambling to escape their anal emanations.

but i will almost run through a wall to get away from the smell of a fart.

i hate the thought of gas that was recently inside a person's colon, and is now inside my lungs.

i am not OCD (for any budding diagnosticians) but i am very impelled to escape the rancid miasma of peoples colonic gasses.



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24 Sep 2008, 7:21 pm

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You put it in your a**hole and when you fart, the smell goes into the bag and it holds in the smell. He said "No thanks." I asked him why and he said "I don't want to try it." I asked him "why?" and he said he doesn't want to try it.


:lol: Because it'd make him look like he crapped his pants.



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24 Sep 2008, 7:34 pm

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Often a refusal to give a reason is just that there is a reason but they just don't want to discuss it. Sometimes they don't want to admit to you what the reason is; sometimes they don't want to admit it to themselves.


While there are many reasons why people give vague answers, or refusal to answer, I believe this one would apply to a lot of people. I've been in arguments over illogical reasons plenty of times, and I hate not getting a reason why out of people. I noticed most everyone I've given illogical reasons to that they tend to stop right there. I wish I could stop right there though. I've gotten better about this, but I always have that nagging feeling to not let it drop!



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24 Sep 2008, 7:40 pm

b9 wrote:
i am very frightened of the smell of farts.

they are absolutely disgusting to inhale.

i will choose any measure available to escape the smell.

it provides entertainment for some gruff farters to see me scrambling to escape their anal emanations.

but i will almost run through a wall to get away from the smell of a fart.

i hate the thought of gas that was recently inside a person's colon, and is now inside my lungs.

i am not OCD (for any budding diagnosticians) but i am very impelled to escape the rancid miasma of peoples colonic gasses.


Hm. A trip to OZ has one more good reason!


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24 Sep 2008, 9:32 pm

Sometimes a feeling of wanting or not wanting to do something can have many contributing causes. It could be what you ate that morning, plus the dream you had, plus whether you showered, plus how your week has been, plus what happened to you that day. Everything adds up to a decision of "yes" or "no" and it can be hard to list the reasons why.

Edit: I completely missed the stuff about the farts. That's funny. I'm not sure how strict the forum rules are, though.


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24 Sep 2008, 11:31 pm

It depends.

Having certain sensitivities in regards to food textures, light, sound, smell and physical contact from other people, I do try to respect people's wanting not to do a certain thing, because for all I know, it might make them sick or uncomfortable somehow. I know that I certainly didn't like people shoving activities, sensations or things they want me to try down my throat and prying as to why exactly I didn't like it or want it. For the sake of consistency, I extend people the same courtesy I want.

On the other hand, when there's a problem with a glaringly obvious solution, or at least a way to work through it, I can't resist exploring the options and asking people why they don't do this, that and the other that could better things. I'm also known to play half-therapist, half-Socrates and tease out why people believe certain things, especially when it's inconvenient or hurtful to them, or why they pursue a certain course of action. It doesn't make me very popular with people on an interpersonal level. However, my curiosity and wanting to understand how people work and why things happen has helped me academically a lot.



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25 Sep 2008, 1:57 am

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So does anyone here always need a logical explanation about why people don't want to do something or try something?


Yup. I'm a bit like Mindy from Animaniacs, always asking "Why", even after I've been given an answer. If that answer is vague, or an answer like the ones you used an an example, I do tend to get drawn to it more and have to have a more detailed answer.



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25 Sep 2008, 2:17 am

Depends on the subject



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25 Sep 2008, 3:28 am

It depends on the subject, if it is interesting enough or if I am curious enough, but generally yes I do need a logical answer or explanation.



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25 Sep 2008, 5:02 am

Reminds me of Spock ... That is highly illogical :lol: What's wrong with hearing an answer?



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25 Sep 2008, 5:49 am

Sometimes.

It depends on what the question I was asking about and whatever.
Or sometimes I get in them "Wanting a logical reason" moods. :D



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25 Sep 2008, 6:44 am

Over analysing topic

Sometimes it is more powerful to be silent and deadly. :twisted:


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