What is teh general view of NT's on this forum?

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24 Feb 2009, 6:10 pm

MommyJones wrote:
...I sometimes wonder if my posts may not necessarily be welcome because of that. I considered posting that very question just yesterday.

It's Alex (the site's owner) who gets to choose who is and who is not welcome, and his requirements for being welcome are simply that you abide by the TOS.

There is no consensus about NTs, (including who this term refers to) around here, and at any rate, WP is not a democracy; it's a privately owned possession. Alex's possession to be precise, and so far as I can tell, Alex welcomes your input.



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24 Feb 2009, 6:47 pm

thanks Jelibean and LuckyBunny *hugs*



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24 Feb 2009, 6:54 pm

I have been married to an NT for 52 years and all but one of my children are NT.

Four children, five grandchildren. Thank goodness the one who is in the spectrum is very high functioning.

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24 Feb 2009, 7:24 pm

Well just to even it up! I am on the spectrum, have 5 children all diagnosed also, parents are both spectrum too and now I am going to be a grandmother! Aaaaghhhh............ yea you guessed it my daughter (ADHD) has met an Aspie!! Eeeek, so it looks as though there is another one on the way!

And ya know what some of us are not as high functioning .............I hate that term by the way.....as others and ya know something else............I WOULDN'T CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD!! Love NT's but love being who I am too!

BTW, ruveyn, I am presuming you are on the spectrum too? You didn't say or I am having a senior moment!! :wink:



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24 Feb 2009, 7:25 pm

The view from here topic

I have never met all NTs. My three children are all NT.

It is the NTs in job environments I have trouble with. If any do not like you, then you can kiss your job goodbye. :evil:

No general view here, as far as I know.


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24 Feb 2009, 7:37 pm

I just see "NT" as a useful term to describe the general population (a.k.a. non-autistic people). I don't really see "NT's" as a group in themselves that can really be discriminated against, hated, or loved as a whole. It's like trying to discriminate against the world. Failed logic.

That being said, I don't hate anyone really, and all my family and friends (except one or two who I suspect are AS, and one AS work friend) would come under the NT classification.


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24 Feb 2009, 8:00 pm

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For me, NT means someone who is not part of the AS community or helpful to it in any way. Even if someone is diagnosed as not having AS, I consider them an Aspie if they consider themself one or consider themself a member of this community. Even an Aspie who considers themself NT and doesn't want to be a member of the AS community, I still consider Aspie. But the rest of the people, whom I call NTs, I do not like.
When I said that I didn';t mean the AS or autism community, which includes horrible NTs from Autism Speaks, but the Aspie or autistic community.



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24 Feb 2009, 8:33 pm

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Hey guys! I was wondering what the general view of NTs is from people on this forum? Are there many NT members?

I ask because I have seen some posts made by people who think that NTs are boring or inferior. Of course I realise that not all think this way because many of you are in relationships with NTs.

I'm not sure if I'm NT or not - I certainly don't have a normal mind. I also have Synaesthesia. I'm good friends with PhilosopherBoi via AIM and he has told me to get "checked" for Autism so I don't know...

Thanks in advance for responses :)

audioeyes,
some users have that elitist thing going on,but they do not represent the community,unfortunately some other sites think everyone on wp is like that or have all the same views on things.

it doesn't matter whether are aut. spectrum,have some other similar condition or are NT-if can look at things on here and relate to them,or have family/friends/whoever that relate to posts on here,then keep using it,elitism is crap.

NTs are just as worthy as anyone else,and shouldnt be seen as a seperate species just because of the different neurotypes.


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25 Feb 2009, 8:49 am

audioeyes wrote:
thanks Jelibean and LuckyBunny *hugs*



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25 Feb 2009, 8:49 am

MommyJones wrote:
audioeyes wrote:
thanks Jelibean and LuckyBunny *hugs*



dito :D



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25 Feb 2009, 8:50 am

pandd wrote:
MommyJones wrote:
...I sometimes wonder if my posts may not necessarily be welcome because of that. I considered posting that very question just yesterday.

It's Alex (the site's owner) who gets to choose who is and who is not welcome, and his requirements for being welcome are simply that you abide by the TOS.

There is no consensus about NTs, (including who this term refers to) around here, and at any rate, WP is not a democracy; it's a privately owned possession. Alex's possession to be precise, and so far as I can tell, Alex welcomes your input.



Thank you Alex :D



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25 Feb 2009, 9:49 am

Personaly, I look at NTs as being the people I have tried so hard to be like and failed. And upon realising that, I think I came to an acceptance of being AS, and to be perfectly honest, I can't hate anyone, even the people I want to hate.



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25 Feb 2009, 10:33 am

jelibean wrote:
Well just to even it up! I am on the spectrum, have 5 children all diagnosed also, parents are both spectrum too and now I am going to be a grandmother! Aaaaghhhh............ yea you guessed it my daughter (ADHD) has met an Aspie!! Eeeek, so it looks as though there is another one on the way!

And ya know what some of us are not as high functioning .............I hate that term by the way.....as others and ya know something else............I WOULDN'T CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD!! Love NT's but love being who I am too!

BTW, ruveyn, I am presuming you are on the spectrum too? You didn't say or I am having a senior moment!! :wink:


I am an Old Aspie, very high in the spectrum. I consider being an Aspie a gift, rather than a problem. I got with computers back in 1955 when I was 19 years old. I went out into applied math and came back into computers in 1960 and worked there for another 42 years. I was an Aspie long before the condition became generally known to the public. When I was a kid, people just thought I was weird and they didn't have a label for it except nutsy fagin.

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25 Feb 2009, 12:29 pm

NT's? i think about 20% of them are cool, and 80% of them are mindless, xenophobic sheep, i'd do away with them but who's gonna serve me my mcdonalds breakfast? XD



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25 Feb 2009, 12:34 pm

jelibean wrote:
Well just to even it up! I am on the spectrum, have 5 children all diagnosed also, parents are both spectrum too and now I am going to be a grandmother! Aaaaghhhh............ yea you guessed it my daughter (ADHD) has met an Aspie!! Eeeek, so it looks as though there is another one on the way!

And ya know what some of us are not as high functioning .............I hate that term by the way.....as others and ya know something else............I WOULDN'T CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD!! Love NT's but love being who I am too!

BTW, ruveyn, I am presuming you are on the spectrum too? You didn't say or I am having a senior moment!! :wink:


lol what a spectrumy family you got there. I bet you turn a few heads when you're all together :wink:


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25 Feb 2009, 1:10 pm

:lol: Xanderbeanz you are sooo naughty!! :wink: I do love a lot of NT's though, I would reverse your stats and say I love 80% of them and the remaining 20% can do one! But then Mmmmm what would my stats be on those on the spectrum?? Not sure it would be as high as 80% :wink: NT's sheep? Mmm makes some of us on the spectrum sound like some stray ferrel cats with very sharp claws! :wink:

ruveyn :lol: love that you love being an Aspie, what a world we would live in without you wonderful folk, we have you to thank for creating these systems that we have now come to rely on, such as the internet. And yes, you sound text book! Maths, science and computers are such a tell tale sign aren't they :wink: There are times that I could quite happily swap brains with a NT (get myself into such scrapes sometimes!). I am an elderly AddHer, us seniors could teach these younger ones a thing or two eh!

Monkey :D Yep, you got it, never mind turn heads, we shatter a few eardrums here and there :lol: Entertaining in a chaotic type of way :wink: