MidlifeAspie wrote:
"Is aspergers a disorder or not?"
Are apples a fruit or not?
Is asparagus a vegetable or not?
Are poodles canines or not?
Sorry, to me this is a definition question. I have seen similar topics in other forums such as "Is a tomato a fruit or vegetable - opinions please". I don't understand this mindset. Your opinion on the topic is irrelevant as the definition already exists in this thing called the English language that by using it to communicate we all agree on a pre-determined set of rules. Otherwise ..... chaos

I'm not disagreeing with you on that point. In fact, I couldn't agree more.
You're statement though was "The OP's question was..." but he clearly did state he was looking for opinions. So, if you want to split hairs, his question was not about definition, but about opinion. I was just splitting hairs in turn, and in good fun (I hope). A agree with you as far as it being a disorder by definition. I'd have to disagree though, that opinions are irrelevant. Opinions drive us all, and often change definitions given enough time and debate.
"Asperger Syndrome" is a term made up to describe a set of symptoms. Made up by a relatively small group of professionals putting their opinions into the DSM (specifically DSM-IV). If the DSM-V proposals are adopted as they currently exist, Asperger Syndrome won't exist at all anymore because the same organization would be changing their opinion.
Ergo, opinions are not really irrelevant.
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