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SaveFerris
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06 Feb 2017, 6:05 pm

The fact that you felt the need to point out using a phone while driving is against the law answers my last question , you clearly feel the obvious needs to be pointed out - which is fine , it's not a problem as long as I know what rules of the game your using. And if you read back the thread to yourself you will find I offered advice and it was you who didn't like what they read so started a debate. And nowhere in any of my posts did I advise to look at your phone and not pay attention , then again I didn't say pay attention , so you got me on that one , see, if I know the rules I'll admit when I'm wrong.


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06 Feb 2017, 6:20 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
nowhere in any of my posts did I advise to look at your phone and not pay attention , then again I didn't say pay attention , so you got me on that one , see, if I know the rules I'll admit when I'm wrong.


You know what? I actually went back and read your first reply to the topic. You did state that you look just over the top of your phone so you don't have an accident. Well, that's great advice and definitely something I can agree with.



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06 Feb 2017, 9:42 pm

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Lately, when I walk to work in the mornings, there has been big groups of school kids and college students waiting at a bus stop, and I always get a mild panic attack having to walk by them. I think the bus times have changed or something, because there never used to be anyone else about anywhere that time of the morning. I worry that soon they might pick up on the way I look shy or something, see it as a weakness, and start picking on me for it. I am not scared, I just can't be bothered with having to deal with all that from kids 10 years younger than me, on my way to work. When I walk by, I don't know where to look. I don't want to make eye contact, but I become all conscious of where I'm looking and what I'm doing with my hands, and my heart starts beating faster.

Does anyone else have trouble walking past groups of young people? How do you deal with it?


You could try and find a less crowded alternate route.

Also though I would imagine those kids have better things to do than pick on a random person that walks by them to get to work in the morning. They're probably on their smartphones anyways...I'd say just walk by like normal, there isn't really a reason to make eye contact with people you aren't trying to really interact with.


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06 Feb 2017, 9:57 pm

Think of the Dionne Warwick song, "Walk on by."



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06 Feb 2017, 11:39 pm

I do just walk by, but my social anxiety starts up. I suppose the half-term break is coming up soon, and then I can walk to work without passing anybody.


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07 Feb 2017, 1:56 am

Try to accept your own insignificance. It works for me.


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07 Feb 2017, 10:56 am

JakeASD wrote:
Try to accept your own insignificance. It works for me.


I think I would sacrifice a limb to accept my own insignificance


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07 Feb 2017, 11:08 am

I am significant to some of those I know.

To others, I am quite insignificant. Even if I was some kind of genius, this would still be true.

As compared to the Known Universe, I am infinitesimal.

Even someone like Einstein is infinitesimal as compared to the scope of the Known Universe---what's known about this Universe, and what's unknown.

What's unknown about the Known universe, to me, far outstrips that which is known.