Wait a Minute, I'm the One with a Disorder?

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iliketrees
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11 Feb 2017, 7:53 am

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The person who diagnosed you is telling you you're the one with the disorder.

What's funny about this is that since OP doesn't have a diagnosis, he's telling himself he's got a disorder, but at the same time, he's saying he doesn't have a disorder.



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11 Feb 2017, 8:13 am

iliketrees wrote:
sonicallysensitive wrote:
The person who diagnosed you is telling you you're the one with the disorder.

What's funny about this is that since OP doesn't have a diagnosis, he's telling himself he's got a disorder, but at the same time, he's saying he doesn't have a disorder.
I assumed he was medically diagnosed!

No wonder the cognitive dissonance in this thread.


I recently diagnosed myself as a cucumber. I must be correct, as 99% of my DNA/genetic make-up is the same as a cucumber.

99% are odds I'll take any day.



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11 Feb 2017, 1:07 pm

Lot of self diagnosers and self advocates seem to misunderstand the word disorder. Something is not made a disorder because they are the minority of the big population. Disorder means it causes you an impairment and makes it hard for you to function. If autism didn't cause anyone an impairment, they wouldn't have a disorder and it would be considered a personality like introversion is and highly sensitive and being an empath even though those three things are also the minority.

I see the diagnosed tell the undiagnosed from time to time on Reddit that autism is a disability, it's not a personality or a quirk before deciding to put the autism label on themselves.

I do see these high functioning people trying to make autism normal and a personality so it makes me wonder how they are even autistic in the first place if they are not impaired. They might have been impaired before but then overcame it by no longer being impaired so they would be considered "cured" or "outgrown" by medical definition.

Also not going out to party and not doing drugs doesn't make you abnormal. It just means you are not into that and that is okay. Everyone has their own interests and hobbies. Not going to parties and not drinking or partying doesn't cause you an impairment.


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11 Feb 2017, 1:12 pm

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For the record, my roommate, who is also a graduate student, didn't come home last night because it was his birthday and he drank until he passed out. I didn't see him until I came home to my apartment for lunch, where he and his female casual sex buddy were sitting on the couch, and he was eating Cheetos and drinking coconut water in hopes of curing his hangover. He said that he felt better after he threw up and after

This sounds to me like how normal people build relationships. They stay together in both good and bad times.



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12 Feb 2017, 2:29 am

OK, I get it that some people really like to party, and some of you probably like to party. I still stand by my assertion that the distinction between "normal" and "disorder" is social/political rather than scientific. We could make the argument that many or most or all of us are here because of the irresponsible sexual behavior of our ancestors, and we could argue that such behavior is normal because, well, we're all here, and their irresponsibility enhanced their life rather than impeded it, at least in some cases. Either way, I think it's a political distinction rather than a scientific one.


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14 Feb 2017, 12:29 am

sonicallysensitive wrote:
I recently diagnosed myself as a cucumber. I must be correct, as 99% of my DNA/genetic make-up is the same as a cucumber.

99% are odds I'll take any day.


definitely not 99%, that amount of similarity is reserved for our closest relatives, apes like chimpanzees and bonobos.

25% of our dna is shared with rice, or so i've read. that's certainly not so comfortable of an odd, but there's a chance! :ninja:


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