Are people with autism borderline sociopaths?
From Cohen's new book, The Science of Evil (it explains the disorders that lack empathy):
That... is so wrong in my case.
Thanks a lot anyway for posting this, it's an interesting quote to keep in mind.
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That... is so wrong in my case.
Thanks a lot anyway for posting this, it's an interesting quote to keep in mind.
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What the hell is "supermoral" even meant to mean? Is he suggesting Aspies are stuck up and prude or what?
I agree, this describes me perfectly. I am unassuming, I always follow the rules, and I always believe the worst about myself, even to the point where it gets truly ridiculous. I am always worried about offending people or stepping on their toes. I am 0% ambitious, and I can only make myself do something if I convince myself that it would help other people. The results might sometimes seem self-centred, but the motives are always completely the opposite.
Yeah, that makes sense.
I agree, this describes me perfectly. I am unassuming, I always follow the rules, and I always believe the worst about myself, even to the point where it gets truly ridiculous. I am always worried about offending people or stepping on their toes. I am 0% ambitious, and I can only make myself do something if I convince myself that it would help other people. The results might sometimes seem self-centred, but the motives are always completely the opposite.
The results seem self-centred because people cannot understand what your motives are. Because the motives are irrational. In the sense that you have explained. Situations are not universally true. They can vary greatly. But that is hard to understand.
You will never make logical decisions that way. I think I should start doing things for myself rather than other people. But it is a pattern it is hard to get out of. Because there is nothing worse than being asocial and not pleasing other people.
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I feel like I am butting into this topic a bit late as I haven't the time to catch up but I wrote something about this very topic psychopath v. autistic mind dealing with the empathy gap and what it means based on whether or psychopathic or autistic.
The text I'm quoting is from here: "Reddit: IAMA female psychopath"
I commented in several section of this article because someone brought up the topic of autism as it relates to being a psychopath and I made sure to give them a piece of my mind lest they sully the goodness of people on the spectrum
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Very interesting. Do you think you have anything in common with autistic/Asperger's people in terms of not understanding/being affected by others' emotions?
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[–]rawthrot[S] 9 points 1 month ago
This is a big common thread. A difference, from what I understand, is that people with autism/Aspergers genuinely don't understand -- or at least can't naturally intuit -- why it is that other people feel the way they do, or how other people will respond emotionally to certain events. I am actually very good at these things. To put it in your terms, I think being autistic means you don't understand others' emotions and therefore aren't properly affected by them. I understand others' emotions perfectly, but they still don't affect me because I don't care.
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[–]Antreus 34 points 1 month ago*
As someone on the autistic spectrum, we do tend to have higher-than-average 'affective empathy', but we are ineffective at demonstrating it, or intuitively grasping the emotional states of ourselves and others - social faux pas are common. Everything is intellectualized for me in that department. The world of an autistic is hypo and hyper sensitive to external stimuli. In many ways an autistic individual can be a potentially good defense against the Dark Arts [(psychotic behaviour); I jest]. But, we are a classic foil to psychotics, don't get us mixed. I have a strong sense of social justice; not merely what is conventionally "evil", as I too am often amorally acculturated to social mores. It isn't that I don't care, but rather I am unaffected at times because I don't know why what I'm doing affects others, depending on the context I do it in.. sometimes its logically sound but not morally sound, but always ethically sound. It doesn't stem from immorality or unethical behaviour outright, but ignorance and anomie. I don't mean any of this as a disparage against psychotics.
We do understand emotions, especially if the person is high-functioning and autistic, but sometimes don't know what to do with the feelings, so they are very black and white. Our bodies tend to 'attack' us because our feelings can be so intense e.g., Rocking back and forth, pacing, self-injurious behaviour, complex body movements, spasms of all sorts, nervous laughter at things that aren't funny, somatic anxiety (ants crawling on skin), etc.
I think apathy is more in line with being a psychopath than being autistic, because you aren't affected. I think empathy is reserved for neuro-typicals, wherein it is intellectualized constantly for me, hit or miss. Sympathy/Compassion is an emotion I can easily demonstrate towards all forms of life even slugs being salted. I believe attention to be a high form of generosity and I am sure many slugs have thanked me.
Autistic and AS individuals actually have a greater response to stress in the environment and when they witness others (animals and even trees) experiencing it themselves than neurotypical people do, even though our non-verbal communication shows otherwise; we care but can come off as disturbed, an a**hole, dis-associative, or cold in order to maintain our mental faculties. I become more formal, handsoff, and avoidant the more emotional demands are placed upon me, just so I can function.
Scary movies are usually exponentially more terrifying for us on the autistic specturm than the 'average joe', even though we register similarly on some tests that look for psychotic characteristics. I think I can empathize with others instinctively when I see/hear them being accosted/endangered, because that is a sensation I feel very intensely. I am usually the first person to call 9-11 and the first person to stand of to a belligerent drunk accosting a cashier at a late night grocery, even though I don't know what to do once the confrontation starts, because at that point I'm all nerves.
Overall my comment was well received by readers of the thread.
TL;DL So what I learned from rawthrot is that psychotic people don't feel remorse, shame, guilt, and are not hindered by collective mores/morals; I am those things to a 'T'. I replay bad scenarios in my head where I was 'off' where I felt guilt or remorse over how/why I said something, but often don't know how to engage/approach a situation to remedy it. Please and thank you also don't always come easy for me, I often have to force myself but they do with a psychotic individual, because its apart of their toolkit comes easily/readily. Whereas formality and niceties are a way for me to cope and ease tensions because I know I am bound to cause a stir eventually.
They also can seemingly cut through anxiety and like to take risks as a result, it's exhilarating - adrenaline junkies sometimes. I find that this is the opposite case with me. I like taking risks only if they are calculated and I have an analytic advantage because I have thought everything through carefully, fastidiously, according to plan. I am often overcome with anxiety and it can be hindering in social situations. Another difference is social situations are intuited for psychopaths and they are not intuited but intellectualized based on established social mores/morals of society, patterns of behaviour, past experiences, and so on for autistics (would be my analysis).
While I'm sure someone is bound to disagree with me on some of my points another one comes down to scary/horror/thriller type movies. I have a very hard time watching thriller/horror/scary movies and sometimes don't cope well with them at all. I find myself covering my head just because I don't want to be startled/scream, leaves me feeling drained after watching them. I make this point because autistics are more sensitive or hyposensitive to external environment/stimulation, hyper/hypo-vigilance even. A psychopathic personality is more than likely really into these types of entertainment/venues/attractions.
I still believe that autistics demonstrate high affective empathy, but are ineffective at intuiting emotional states in themselves and others. This is why it would appear that autistics are borderline psychotic personality, when in fact they are more of a classic foil to the psychotic personality, that's why there seems to be overlap. Empathy in psychotics is unapologetic apathetic, they will show empathy if they see it as a benefit to their ego, otherwise they are disaffected. Myself an autistic I feel that I am highly affected to these sorts of things, but for me the picture is the opposite of a psychopath, clearly an extreme on an opposite pole.
Lacking the ability to intuitive grasp socialization tools like empathy and shared emotion makes an individual fundamentally impaired in the real world when you think of how many activities involve conversation, consoling, sharing grief, various obligations, as well as morals & mores derived from said shared emotions. Both a psychotic personality and an autistic one's perceptions of reality are derived from different, emphasized sources of distress, but share a common thread that isn't neurotypical in the empathy department so that is why I think people think there is overlap when there isn't.
There was a poll here, around half the people had lots of cognitive empathy and little affective empathy, and half the other way around. I guess it would depend on the particular kind of abuse you had as a child and how you reacted to it. Anyway, I'm an autistic with cognitive empathy and the similarities and differences with psychopaths are interesting. They have blind spots in different areas. They can't tell when someone is acting, for one. That means they can't see when people are feeling things. They must be able to deduce when people should be feeling things. That means they have the same motives as NTs. So I don't really know the difference between psychopaths and NTs.
I don't really get it.
Do you mean sociopaths or psychopaths?
Because sociopaths are NT as far as I know but psychopaths aren't.
So a sociopath would definitely be able to pull off the "smooth" type persona and would be very aware of the feelings and thoughts of others so they could manipulate them well, but a psychopath is much different and can't really put on an act of any sort.
At least that's the impression I get.
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Both are diagnosed with the same disorder and shouldn't be IMO.
"Sociopath" implies that person was socialized to be the way they are psychopath implies that it's pathological. Their braisn also show up as non NT on scans.
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In any case I'd have to say that people on the spectrum could resemble both.
Sociopaths and psychopaths have similar traits with different root causes. Perhaps a sociopath is even wired similarly to a psychopath even though they're NT.
I guess this wouldn't be such an awful thing if both of those groups weren't capable of doing heinous things. I know that most people on the spectrum aren't but it's a slippery slope and hard for people to grasp the differences when there actually are similarities.
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