Is refusal to do homework an Aspie thing?

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23 Dec 2010, 5:36 pm

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Has anyone else had this attitude about homework? Is this an Aspie thing? I always did mine, and I am AS too.

It is nowhere near an Aspie thing. It is a typical kid thing, I think 98 percent of NT kids and teenagers hate doing homework.
Aspies are known to do lots of typical NT things, we are not different in everything.


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23 Dec 2010, 5:55 pm

oh god I am AS and hate homework with the fire of a thousand suns.

This is mostly because I firmly believe that school work should NOT on a regular basis infect the home life; they should be kept as separate as possible. Like, do your school work ALL at school, how hard is that?



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24 Dec 2010, 9:00 am

Shebakoby wrote:
oh god I am AS and hate homework with the fire of a thousand suns.

This is mostly because I firmly believe that school work should NOT on a regular basis infect the home life; they should be kept as separate as possible. Like, do your school work ALL at school, how hard is that?


We didn't get homework till we were 12 or 13.....and curiously, my performance was very good until then. Somehow they managed to get us to understand and remember everything we needed to, without homework.

Homework, and all other ways of forcing kids to compromise a healthy work-life balance, reminds me of the nuclear arms race...they're always pushing us harder for fear of seeing others overtake us, yet nobody is really any better off at the end of it. So why not a global limitation deal? Slow down the rat race before they send us all round the twist, I say.



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24 Dec 2010, 9:30 am

Refusal to do homework is most often a manifestation of plain old laziness.

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24 Dec 2010, 10:53 am

I have always done my homework.



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24 Dec 2010, 12:34 pm

When I was at the Infants school, we used to get given a reading book from the school library to take home and read to our parents. That wasn't so bad. At Junior school we used to get given spellings or sums, and all they wanted us to do was 10 minutes of learning and practising them, which wasn't so bad either. But at Secondary school, when I first started there at age 11, I got homework from every subject, and it literally took up my whole half term break to do it - it was terrible. I hated homework, and I was lucky that I didn't have any litte brothers and sisters in my way, because some kids did. You need the right environment to do work. Why should the school give kids responsibilities?


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24 Dec 2010, 12:43 pm

I try to do my homework. I know many with AS who never do their homework, though; as well as some who complete it religiously.



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24 Dec 2010, 12:53 pm

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Is your son getting enough of an intellectual challenge from his school work? Some extremely bright kids do horribly in school simply because they're bored out of their skulls, depressed because of it, and act out by refusing to do the assignments, especially the pointless assignments that don't add anything to their useful base of knowledge (like memorizing the US presidents, or repeating mathematical concepts that they already understand over and over.) Sadly, a lot of school districts base their admittance to more challenging classes strictly on the kids' performance in lower classes, so it can be hard for a parent with a child who is bored with the lower classes to convince the school district to move them.


This was me in middle school and high school.

I even tried to make assignments more fun, but would get trouble for that as well.

One time there was an assignment about writing my opinions on what a hero was. I went on in this essay to write there was no such thing as true altruism and here is no such thing as a hero, especially selfless hero.

My teacher then got extremely mad that I didn't follow the assignment. But the assignment only said to write my opinion on heroes, not to write good things about heroes.

I use to twist assignments around, I was bad like that. But it was the only source of sanity in school I use to have.



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24 Dec 2010, 12:55 pm

pekkla wrote:
I am probably going to put him in the "independent study" program at the school, which is a modified homeschool program, but I worry that it doesn't have enough structure.


When I was put in independent study it was a lot less stress. I got to go to school less, I didn't have to deal with people as much. And I was able to work one on one with a teacher. This is a good thing for your son. Trust me. Please. To save his life of brain dead bullying and pain. Do it.