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aussiebloke
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05 Aug 2014, 7:39 pm

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05 Aug 2014, 8:05 pm

wearing clothes
proper english
living above ground
having windows
mowing my lawn
pulling weeds from my driveway
driving cars of certain design
sarcasm
observing hierarchies
some visible emoting



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05 Aug 2014, 11:00 pm

bumble wrote:
I want to go to Uni because I love to learn, outside of having to take care of survivial 101 (which I need to do so I can survive biologically) I don't care if it gets me a better job, although doing a job in a feild I enjoy would be very nice. The main reason I study is because I love studying. NTs only go to Uni for the status and the better paid employment, they don't respect the learning, the knowledge, the science or the art...they don't love it, they do it to get somewhere in life.


I just want to say that I agree with this.
I did however go to university to get a job. There's no other way I'd be able to get a job in the field of science without studying at a university. And I certainly don't like studying.

Anyway, for some reason, I thought everyone at college would be...smarter. I was disappointed. As you said, many of them go solely to get a job and many go because they're "supposed" to go. Few college students care about learning or acquiring knowledge. If anything, they are passionate about finding dates (or hooking up). The knowledge is secondary. Just look at the song "I Love College" by Asher Roth. In the song he talks about how much fun college is because of the sex and booze and how he couldn't tell you anything he learned in school. Sure, it's just a song, but I feel like that mentality is found in the majority of college students.
I also want to add something else that I've noticed. It seems as if many students just regurgitate whatever the textbook or professor says...That's fine and dandy, but these same students seem to think they're geniuses because they memorized whatever is in the book. I beg to differ. But I guess that's what people mean by "book smart." Even the drunkest of sorority girls can sit down, read a book, and take a quiz over it.



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06 Aug 2014, 1:33 am

Expose my penis, oops sorry meant to say wear over sized sunglasses , oversized watch and branded clothing , and if you have money you can buy a oversized Jaguar E type , I call it the penis mobile , seriously it looks like a penis on wheels !


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06 Aug 2014, 9:00 pm

Despite them being uncomfortable wear dress shirts, slacks and suits for those occasions where neurotypical unwritten rules say you should.

Eye contact

And say "Have a nice day"


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07 Aug 2014, 10:29 am

Avoid eye contact with strangers (unless interacting with them)

Say something like "I'm fine thanks", even if you aren't, if they ask how are you, etc

Try to make small talk, when appropriate

Remember to smile and laugh along with them (even if what they said is not funny)