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19 Apr 2007, 3:25 pm

I don't really see it as a debate because these categories are just constructs for diagnostic purposes. Sometimes I think of our brains as punched cards and the holes on each card will never line up with any other card. The only thing we have in common are holes somewhere. :lol:


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19 Apr 2007, 3:43 pm

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I don't really see it as a debate because these categories are just constructs for diagnostic purposes. Sometimes I think of our brains as punched cards and the holes on each card will never line up with any other card. The only thing we have in common are holes somewhere. :lol:


I am going to remember that for the next time people start asking about my family. :D



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19 Apr 2007, 4:33 pm

You know, my counselor is beginning to think that I have NLD instead of AS since I have no lack of social skills, a major part of being an aspie. Can someone please compile a list of traits of the similarities and differences between AS and NLD? I would really, really appreciate it! :)



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19 Apr 2007, 4:48 pm

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You know, my counselor is beginning to think that I have NLD instead of AS since I have no lack of social skills, a major part of being an aspie. Can someone please compile a list of traits of the similarities and differences between AS and NLD? I would really, really appreciate it! :)


Lots of information here, Lightning:

http://www.nldontheweb.org/


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19 Apr 2007, 4:51 pm

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Lightning88 wrote:
You know, my counselor is beginning to think that I have NLD instead of AS since I have no lack of social skills, a major part of being an aspie. Can someone please compile a list of traits of the similarities and differences between AS and NLD? I would really, really appreciate it! :)


Lots of information here, Lightning:

http://www.nldontheweb.org/

Thanks! I took a look at it and it sounded nearly just like me!



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19 Apr 2007, 5:15 pm

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My daughter has been evaluated by a neuropsychologist, developmental psychologist, neurologist, psychiatrist (for depression), speech pathologist and occupational therapist. None have mentioned that left-handedness contradicts NVLD.


Hi, SeriousGirl. I'm sorry if it sounded like I was saying that you can't be left-handed and have NLD- that definitely isn't what I meant. I was just saying that in the typical presentation, there are more severe effects on the left side of the body because of damage to the right hemisphere, and then I speculated about how being left-handed might affect the disorder. For example if you had an atypical pattern of lateralization in the brain, then most of your damage might be in the left hemisphere instead of the right, but still be NLD. Brains are tricky. After all, given that my fine motor coordination is stronger on the left side of my body, you'd think I'd be left-handed, but I'm not. I definitely wasn't trying to imply anything about your kids, or their diagnoses, or anything like that.



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19 Apr 2007, 5:22 pm

LostInSpace, I'm not really hung up on the left handedness aspect. Her traits fit better into the NVLD slot than the AS slot or the PDD-NOS slot.


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19 Apr 2007, 6:09 pm

I was diagnosed as having a "very pronounced" NVLD, as well as AS. The psychologist who administered the cognitive tests I took gave me the impression that the two often occur together. Since she's respected in the field, I just took her word for what it was and didn't do much research on my own. So, I'm surprised to learn some people consider them to be such distinct conditions. This is interesting. I'll have to check out some of the links and look into it more...



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20 Apr 2007, 7:21 am

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I was Dx'ed with an NLD, I had the three of the D's, Dyscalculia, Dyslexia, Dysgraphia. And I do have problems with perception, (no depth perception for one) and as a child I struggled with maps, charts and graphs. However, in studying them so much, I over compensated, and now I find maps, charts and graphs VERY HELPFUL and use them all the time!

So it is possible to improve visual-spatial abilities for example by practise if one has NLD? And if so, how?
I suppose I am today with 21 also more able to read maps, charts and graphs than I was as a child and in my early teen years when I, as I remember, didn't get those at all. But as far as understanding things better they still help me much less than simply reading the text around it, so I got used somehow to just skipping them (as I also never felt like I was missing anything by just reading the text anyways). I also can't get any use out of such mindmaps as this for example -> http://hsc.csu.edu.au/ind_tech/design_m ... nd_Map.gif I know it's supposed to make things easier to learn for most people, but all those arrows from here to there and back again, I find it nothing but confusing!


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20 Apr 2007, 7:46 am

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you have nvld :D nothing wrong with that!! i wish i had it instead of aspergers :D


Why would you prefer to have NLD? At least AS can come with some impressing special interests :D


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20 Apr 2007, 8:28 am

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Although I do struggle with social issues, what I consider my greatest area of deficit is in finding my way around. I have to specifically describe my route verbally (ex. "Walk through the main doors. Continue straight towards the Psych Department sign. When you reach the sign, turn left, and the first door on the right is the mailroom), and then memorize it that way. Otherwise, I get totally lost. It's a real problem when driving, although I do have a GPS, which helps somewhat. Often, I end up wandering around until I find what I'm looking for (especially in buildings). If I don't follow my usual route, I very quickly get disoriented. Hence my chosen name: "LostInSpace." Because I frequently am!


Finding my way around is also one of my greatest difficulties or maybe better said one of the thing which bother me the most, because one needs it all life long, whereas about my motor skills for example I don't care anymore since the glorious day of my last p.e. lesson.
Also this extreme lack of sense of direction constantly offers all kinds of embarassing incidents, doesn't it, like (and this is only one example of many many) when in elementary school we went on a one week long trip and were shown all the different rooms of the buidling where we spent the time, then some days later my teacher asks me to get to the school room ("SchuLraum" in German) and I wander aimlessly around until I finally get to the door which says "Schulraum" (or at least so I thought), happily fling it open, just to turn around and see my teacher going "What are you doing in the shoe room???!" ("SchuHraum" in German, one small letter making all the difference). Ha ha, there ready wit is asked for! :D Oh dear :roll:


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For instance, in third grade our classrooms were on the second floor of the school rather than the first, and also we were more independent in going from class to class that year. Well, that was not good news for me! I would come home crying every day that I couldn't find my way around the second floor!

I remember that in elementary school I always had trouble finding my way to the cloakroom. My mom showed me so often that she just couldn't believe it anymore at some point that I can't find it myself and so just left me one day to find it on my own. I was totally anxious and cried, but then thanks god a fourth-grader came around and showed me. My dad came up with an equally "great" idea the other day. Goes without saying of course that also from classroom to classroom I could only find by following the others.


Also, I do have a tendency to overreact in conversations sometimes, I think probably because I have difficulty interpreting the motivation behind what someone says. So if someone is just trying to "stir things up," I totally fall for it and overreact.

I think I have this too, I often get the reproach of being too emotionally sensitive at least and taking things too personally.

My dad probably has NLD, too, by the way. Is there anyone else in your family with the same problems you have?

Not exactly all of the same problems, but my mom and her parents were all terrible at sports, but my mom is also great with spelling and for example remembering song lyrics and such things, then again she has no social difficulties at all for example. My grandpa is said to also have had a very bad sense of direction, my grandma told me for example that he often turned the wrong way when going out of a shop/store (something which I also have) and that during trips or so it was always her who would have to lead their way back to the hotel and such. He had trouble with math, too. My dad is the only one however who I'd suspect to really have some disorder, some form of inattentive ADD or AS, at least he shares very much of the typical traits (and I'm often told that I'm much like my dad). My half-brother is only five so I think one can't really say much there, except for that he also has social difficulties and this kind of shy loner personality about him. My brother however is typical NT (if NTness were a disorder he would be the textbook case :D)


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20 Apr 2007, 9:16 am

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I was diagnosed as having a "very pronounced" NVLD, as well as AS. The psychologist who administered the cognitive tests I took gave me the impression that the two often occur together. Since she's respected in the field, I just took her word for what it was and didn't do much research on my own. So, I'm surprised to learn some people consider them to be such distinct conditions. This is interesting. I'll have to check out some of the links and look into it more...


It appears the professionals are having a difference of opinion on this matter. Since it is not in the DSM, there is no clear cut guidelines. I personally feel it is part of the same thing. AS is certainly a non verbal learning problem too. 80% of people with AS will also have NVLD so my position is that AS incorporates NVLD.


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20 Apr 2007, 10:05 am

This is how I am now seeing it, using a Venn Diagram approach:

Left side: AS ONLY
20% of Aspies fit here. They do not have NLD traits, or enough to be considered suffering NLD

MIDDLE: (Overlap of AS and NLD traits)
80% of Aspies fit here. They present with enough AS and NLD traits. They present with enough NLD traits, that they could be Dx'ed with it, but may be left handed, may be able to read maps, maybe be able to follow diagrams and charts. (usually can)

No NLD people present with enough AS traits to be considered Aspie or fall between both DX's. They may have a couple of "quirks", however no more so then anyone in the NT population.

Right side: NLD ONLY

The vast majority if not 100% of NLD people fall here. They do not have Autistic traits. If a person with AS is Dx'ed with NLD, then the person giving the DX is probably not accounting for the AS traits. It is like having a checklist of things, and checking off all that apply, and saying, "you have enough checkmarks for NLD. But when the person says, so what about my obsessions and stims? The evaluator says, "that has nothing to do with NLD... Maybe something else is going on with you, like OCD, or Tourettes, or maybe you are just quirky". To them, you might as well have said "but what about the fact I am very tall". To them, it is an outside perameter, that does not "infulence" the DX for NLD.
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Since so many NLD traits are found in AS people, they don't consider the 80% of Aspies with NLD to have a "separte condition" rather, they have incorporated the traits of NLD into an AS profile as "parallel symptoms".

Where it gets confusing, is when you have someone who is showing all the "common shared traits" between NLD, and then has some As traits, and some NLD traits. Say, they are left handed and obsess about things, and stim, but they also (although unusual for an aspie) Cannot read maps or follow diagrams. So, what do you do with them? I think a lot like a child sorting out shapes for their math teacher, onto a venn diagram, many evaluators tend to just "stick them somewhere, anywhere to "get them on the page" using whatever individual reasoning they have, but walking away feeling "uncomfortable' about it. Maybe to make themselves feel better, they will then "justifiy" the choice over and over in their head, until they believe it.



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20 Apr 2007, 11:00 am

Wow, I wouldn't have thought that it's so hard (or better said nearly impossible) to work out the exact difference between the two (AS and NLD) and how they relate to each other, then again, if not even the professionals seem to know for sure...

Hmmm, wouldn't anybody like to make an NLD-Quiz much like the Aspie-Quiz and do some research on it? Anyone? rdos? Someone call me rdos here! :D ;-)


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20 Apr 2007, 11:08 am

risingphoenix wrote:
richardbenson wrote:
you have nvld :D nothing wrong with that!! i wish i had it instead of aspergers :D
Why would you prefer to have NLD? At least AS can come with some impressing special interests :D
because its mysterious :D