Jeyradan wrote:
I've just remembered that as a child, I told someone that I "liked to tidy," and my mother immediately said that that wasn't true, as my room was never tidy. (It's taken me a long time to learn how to organize my life.) But I wasn't able to explain what I really meant, which was that though I disliked cleaning, I loved organizing - putting things into categories, compartments, ordered lines, and so forth.
I also remember going to my grandmother's, where I received a doll and my brother a set of Matchbox cars. I tried undressing and re-dressing the doll, but my grandmother told me it "wasn't nice to do that to the dolly," so instead I joined my brother's car games - by lining the cars up in order of size, type or color, and then by spinning the wheels on them (yes, I remember doing this, and I was sort of embarrassed to learn recently that it's well-known behavior on the spectrum).
That pretty much sums up how I played with toys as a kid. My room was always a mess, too. I can't quite understand how I could stand such a cluttered up room, but still be so obsessed with organizing. When I was little I would spend hours organizing all of my barbie clothes, and accessories, and only a few minutes playing with them. I had a very specific rules as to how things would go, and was surprised when I found out other girls didn't like to play that way.
As an adult, I still line things up by my "rules", but now they're adult things like plates, cups, towels, shoes. clothes, ect... I really don't mind that I'm the only one doing the housework, because I like to do certain things, and have things a certain way.
I also remember that my (suspected) AS brother used to spend hours, upon hours lining up books all through the house making very neat lines for his toy cars to drive on. I would find great joy in quietly sneaking up, and knocking them out of place, and running off as he threw a HUGE tantrum.