Sophist wrote:
:D
I offer you smiles instead

But just to let you know, I always post in size 15, no matter the subject. I just like big letters.
And there is a difference between just bluntness and a personal attack. Personal attacks aren't allowed on WP. The lady, I assume you're referring to, is nirrti. I brought up the subject in the mods forum so you know. After I'd read your response to her.
Attacks are against the TOS. Thankfully for me, pedantry currently is not. 
I've been accused of attacking you, Sophist. I think the correct terminolgy is "personal attack". I reacted to a perceived "attack" from you, in that your response to me was patronising, in size 15 font, and (as I've pointed out) factually incorrect. Many males with AS would have reacted, similarly, I think. Though I accept, now, you didn't mean it as such.
If you people stick moderator after your name, you should expect some criticism, if it's due. It goes with the job. Especially when we all know most of you get promoted through a system of favouritism, and can't apply rules here fairly or consistently.
If you ban me, there'll be someone else along to question you lot after. A good thing, too.