Lene wrote:
People have respect for people. Not for their qualifications.
I work amongst professionals all with the same degree and the difference of respect that both I and the customers hold for them is entirely dependent on how they interact with others, not what letters they have after their name or even how much knowledge they have.
An arrogant a**hole may be the top of his field, say in medicine, and may even be respected amongst others with the same degree, but if he is dismissive of the patient, or scoffs at their beliefs (say in reflexology or whatever), then they are far more likely to think him an idiot and seek a second opinion/sue if something goes wrong.
The way I see it is, if you are an expert in something, then you are an ambassador for that subject. You should act delighted that others show an interest in it too, whatever their level, and patiently let them expouse their own knowledge. Disagree politely where necessary, and if they become obnoxious, change topic. If you're intelligent enough to get a phD, this shouldn't be too difficult.
Thank you for expressing so eloquently what I have been thinking since I first read this thread. I have emboldened the last paragraph as I believe the OP should read it carefully and think deeply about the message conveyed.