Characters whose autistic traits you relate to

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Bones is awesome! Rewatching the whole series right now

Benedict Cumberbatch in The Immitation Game. His team perceive him as "aloof" and the accusation shocks his character Alan Turing. I have had "you are so aloof" thrown at me, because at work (I am retired now) I had neither time nor inclination to participate in chit chat. I was surprised, because I was always happy to assist staff who sought help with some aspect of their work that was baffling them. I don't do small talk but I always greated people (Good Morning!) and asked "how are you doing" of people who had been sick. Apparently that didn't count with neurotypicals.
The Alan Turing character wants a strict focus on solving the Enigma codes, no discussing what to have for lunch, what I ate for dinner etc etc.. (I believe that Turing was Aspie as..)

This might be an odd one, but I can relate to Lou, the young dog in the movie Cats And Dogs. He reminds me of me when I started high school; childlike and not taking my schoolwork seriously, like Lou was a bouncing puppy and wasn't really taking his secret agent thing seriously or not quite understanding. Lou's friend, Butch, that he'd partnered with, reminds me of the friend I had on and off in the first two years of high school, she was quite no-nonsense and took her schoolwork seriously and was sometimes patronising to me, trying to snap me out of my goofy, unprofessional manner. Butch even looked a bit like my friend, with the facial expressions, sort of like kind-looking but a bit impatient on the inside.

EDIT: I'm aware that Lou did not have any autistic traits but that doesn't mean I can't relate to him a bit.

Dream (also known as Morpheus) - from Neil Gaiman "The Sandman" comic novel series

Traits:
Literal Thinking and Communication Style
Dream often interprets language very literally and struggles with metaphor or humor in social contexts.

Rigid Routines and Rules
He is deeply bound to rules, rituals, and cosmic responsibilities. He often resists change and becomes distressed when things deviate from his expectations.

Social Challenges and Emotional Expression
Dream has difficulty forming and maintaining relationships. He often appears emotionally distant or struggles to understand others’ emotional needs, which can be interpreted as challenges with social-emotional reciprocity.

Special Interests and Hyperfocus
He is intensely focused on his realm (Dreaming) and the metaphysical concepts surrounding it. This kind of deep, sustained interest in a specific domain is very recognizable.

Sensory Sensitivity (Implied)
While not overt, Dream’s heightened awareness of the metaphysical and symbolic might be interpreted as a form of sensory sensitivity or heightened perception.

I would say I relate to Spock, but not quite as stoic.

I also relate to the character Tegularis in the awesome book "The Glass Bead Game". Apparently the character Tegularis was modelled on the historical figure Friedrich Nietzsche, when the author, Hermann Hesse was asked about it. I'm not as neurotic as Tegularis, but sometimes I feel a low-grade anxiety, especially around people. So many times throughout the book, I felt I was being described, as the character of Tegularis gets developed. It felt quite uncanny.

I wonder if my life-long obsession with Doctor Who is due to this? Quite often, when they try to portray the hero as subtly different from humans, they kind of end up coding him as autistic. "My" Doctor was the 7th, Sylvester McCoy, with his seriously off-kilter body language, aggressively unfashionable outfit and tendency to come up with elaborate plans he's given up trying to explain to people. Elsewhere, Peter Capaldi's 12th Doctor has zero social filter - Clara makes him a set of flash cards to help with that. (Which he uses.) Even the more extrovert incarnations don't have the smoothest social skills.

Why do I seem to relate to more goofy, silly characters? I don't think I've ever been able to relate to geeky sort of characters ever.