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atxa
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10 Jan 2010, 8:20 pm

I never know what to say cause I forget almost everything, exemple if next week I'll take my vacation and somebody ask me what's new about me, I'll don't think about my vacation so I'll don't talk about that, so my answer will be "nothing new".

And it's that with a lot of things, last week I saw an ex co-worker and I forgot to say that I'm studying part time so I didn't have a long conversation with him.

It's not spontaneous, I have to think too long to find something to say, when it's happening I'm not nervous or anxious, I'm relax when it's happening ...



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10 Jan 2010, 11:41 pm

I have the same problem. If I really want to say something to someone, I write it down to remind myself.


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11 Jan 2010, 12:25 am

Sounds like me. I'll think of what to say later on that day, or later that week. Or somebody will make a comment, and I'll think to myself, "Why didn't I think of saying that? I even had that same thought!!"



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11 Jan 2010, 9:52 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
I have the same problem. If I really want to say something to someone, I write it down to remind myself.


Sometime before to call someone I do that too.



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11 Jan 2010, 9:54 am

Greshym_Shorkan wrote:
somebody will make a comment, and I'll think to myself, "Why didn't I think of saying that? I even had that same thought!!"


Same with me.



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11 Jan 2010, 1:05 pm

Same