There is a very special question that will make anybody answer you with a literal answer. I mentioned it elsewhere, but feel its best to put it on its own, here.
I will just tell you the generic version. You customize it for your own needs/environment/situation.
"What would it take for me to....."
or
"How do I get you to......"
Do me a big favour. Try this out, and reply back here with your results.
This question is so powerful, it might even get you laid. But I doubt it. More likely you will get beaten up or slapped, or arrested.