How long should you wait after the funeral...

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menintights
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26 Sep 2010, 5:58 pm

...before you can throw out someone's stuff?

Also, pictures: what do you do with them if you don't want to keep them?



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26 Sep 2010, 6:08 pm

I don't think there is an etiquette-- and if there is I wouldn't even follow it because it would be stupid.



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26 Sep 2010, 7:05 pm

Your comfort level dictates the timeline. Although, perhaps to ask people who cared about this person if they wanted any of the stuff you may want to be rid of because of a sentimental value they may attach to it. Also, be sure you're clearing out the stuff at the right time (that you're past the grieving stages and not a set timeframe).



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26 Sep 2010, 7:27 pm

Um....
Who was it? What was the relation to you?


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26 Sep 2010, 11:03 pm

Main thing, make sure any family and close friendfs of the deceased get a chance. After that, as it feels ok



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27 Sep 2010, 12:18 am

For the pictures, a ceremonious burning, perhaps? It seems nicer than just chucking them in the bin. It doesn't have to be anything special. Simply taking the time out of your day to have a quiet moment of remembrance as the pictures turn to ash could be appropriate.

After what Philologos suggested, of course.